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Been a while since I've been here...and it's just gotten worse..

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Submitted by fedupstep on Mon, 02/06/2017 - 10:29am

A little background...

DH and I have been together almost 7 years and he has a daughter, 18. I have no bios. BM has custody and we did the EOWE thing. DH and BM split up with sd18 was a baby so DH has never really been a full time dad. He spent her childhood trying to be a cool dad, no rules, no consequences, no consistency. SD18 learned very early on to play mom off of dad and visa-versa. She has morphed into an entitled, lazy, selfish, socially immature brat that I disengaged from years ago. I probably am the only adult in her life that makes her accountable for her actions.

The Room Toss (Part 2 Of Underwear Gate Exposed)

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Submitted by fedupstep on Fri, 07/10/2015 - 4:02pm

Thankfully SD16 doesn’t keep a lot of things here...DH, SD16 and I spent about an hour or so going through her room. There doesn’t appear to be anything else sinister hiding in it. We stood over her while she went through everything. It was nice to see that almost everything I’ve ever given her (homemade scarf, some leggings and a sweater) was shoved under her bed and obviously not used. This pissed DH off more than the underwear.

Fruit of the Loominati/Underwear Gate EXPOSED!!!

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Submitted by fedupstep on Fri, 07/10/2015 - 2:25pm

Well....she did not disappoint.

SD16 arrived here this afternoon (after BM called and asked DH to pick her up 4 hours early) completely unaware of what she was about to walk into. I was practically pacing at the door when she got here. She walked in first, DH followed behind her looking like he was about to be sick. As usual, she does her sickly sweet,’ hiiiiiiii’ and walks past me to the living room. Before she can plop her lazy ass down DH said, “SD16, Fedup and I need to talk to you in your room.” She stares at us and doesn’t move. “Now, upstairs.”

DH's Missing Underwear FOUND

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Submitted by fedupstep on Wed, 07/08/2015 - 1:48pm

For almost a year, DH has been slowly 'losing' his underwear. He would constantly ask me if I had thrown it out, which I hadn't, and I was seriously thinking that he might be cheating.

The other day I needed to get something off the top shelf of my closet and went into sd16's room to get the step ladder we store in her closet. When I was returning it I noticed a zipped up hoodie with something peeking out from top of the zipper. I unzipped it and there were 5 pairs of DH's underwear.

Chester the Molester is history. .but so are DH's balls

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Submitted by fedupstep on Sat, 06/27/2015 - 7:32am

After the Disaster of Father's Day 2015 when sd16 had her temper tantrum, dh standing his ground and me thinking of taking up day drinking while sitting in my closet, I really am living in carzy town now.

The good news is that sd16 broke up with Chester the Molester, her 21 year old bf. Ironically she dumped him because he would answer her texts fast enough for her liking and waa feeling ignored. She can go days without getting back to dh bit can't wait an hour for the bf to get back to her.

I don't this weekend could have gone any worse...

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Submitted by fedupstep on Mon, 06/22/2015 - 8:15am

...as posted in my last blog, SD16 atrocious behaviour this past weekend ruined any chance of a peaceful father's day for DH. She arrived and left friday night after a lovely temper tantrum. Then asked DH to drive the hour to BM's house for lunch on Father's Day (which he would pay for of course). DH declined.

He said he would see how long it would take for her to call/text him. He caved the next day (sunday) and texted her. "I miss you". Her response? "Sorry dad, busy right now, talk soon". NOT EVEN A HAPPY FATHER'S DAY.

SD16 ups the ante...

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Submitted by fedupstep on Wed, 06/17/2015 - 10:18am

Oh SD16! You certainly know how to make your dad proud!

Last week DH called BM after not hearing from SD16 for almost a week. She had her phone taken away from her due to not turning in her school work. AGAIN. Two freakin weeks left in school and she still is pulling this shit. Sd16 was walking her dogs when DH called so BM said she would have her call him back.

This is the longest weekend of my life

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Submitted by fedupstep on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 2:59pm

DH and SD16 are determined to make this weekend miserable for me.

In my last blog I talked about how I am in the shit house about not being thrilled about sd16 new boyfriend, Chester the Molester who is 21 years old. DH, BM and Sd16's stepdad are all fine with it.

Because of this, they have both been all passive aggressive with me all weekend. And yesterday SD offered to make lunch for just her dad and herself while I was sitting in the room. When I had the nerve to point it out, DH was annoyed that he actually had to parent her.

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