My worst nightmare
Well my worst nightmare has come true.
My boyfriend's daughter who is nine and has yet to master peeing and pooping will now be bleeding out of her cooch one week a month.
I still have to tell her all the fucking time to rinse the shit smears off her leggings before putting them in the laundry.
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Nine? That's kind of young,
Nine? That's kind of young, isn't it?
Tell your bf to take his
Tell your bf to take his daughter's laundry to the local laundromat because a) you don't need poop all over YOUR clothes or b) poop clogging up the washer.
I have to ask... WTH is wrong with your bf that he does not address his daughter's disgusting lack of hygiene???
Have her use baby wipes maybe
Have her use baby wipes maybe that will help to clean her better.
The thought of dealing with
The thought of dealing with that with my SD literally makes me feel queasy.
Also, just reading the title I was thinking it was going to be a post about BM handing over full custody. So I guess I know what my worst nightmare is.
I truly feel for you girl. I
I truly feel for you girl. I remember hearing the same news with my exSD and just feeling dread wash over me with visions of open-face pads in the trash, blood on the toilet seat and floor.
Your SD needs to be in diapers 100% of the time. Between the piss, shit and now blood, I wouldn’t want her sitting on anything in my house. And has your SO stepped up yet to figure out what her issues are??? You said there was suspected FAS. Now her period at 9? He needs to get her checked out.
I am so sorry you’re dealing with this. This man can’t possibly be worth you and your kids tolerating this.
Was it as bad as you thought
Was it as bad as you thought it was going to be?
Ew.
Ew.
I must say, I was surprised at all of the poop/pee issues when I joined this site! Thank God, I had none of those issues with my SD and the worst thing about her period was that BM didn't explain to her to wrap up used products when she threw them away. Once we explained it to her, she did it, no problem.
I feel for all who have to deal with these disgusting step kids.
As many of you pointed out,
As many of you pointed out, it is young. But she is obese so it was not that much of a surprise. I have been both dreading and expecting it.
As for my boyfriend, I understand a lot of you think he is to blame for this. But consider the fact that here we have a child who, 90% of the time, is having her bad habits reinforced by the custodial parent and less than 10% of the time is exposed to a parent who is trying. The girl has fetal alcohol syndrome and is frankly not that bright. Changing bad habits requires consistency and dedication. He talks to her until he is blue in the face. He tries to talk to her about hygiene, wiping, showering, etc. You would think it would sink in but I guess it's not going to because her mom is not backing him up at home and also she really just doesn't care. You cannot force somebody to care when they don't care.
She has not had her period at my house but I know it's coming.
It is really sad what her
It is really sad what her mother had done to her. This poor girl didn't have a chance with an alcoholic mother who didn't care enough to stop drinking during pregnancy. She makes me sick.
I don't know much about fetal alcohol syndrome but I think consistency is one key and she obviously doesn't have that with BM.
Very sad. Frustrating for you, for sure, but I'm so sad for her.
A family friend had her daughter start her periods
At age 9 which no one in the family had started that soon as most were around 13. She wasn’t fat or engaging in sex so mum was clueless
but i have read somewhere with all the foods we eat pumped full of hormones like chicken for example, it can bring on menstruation sooner because our bodies mature quicker.
my mum was quite thin and started at 14, i was also quite thin and started a few weeks after my 13th birthday.
Op are you the one whose sd has fetal alcohol syndrome and whose partner freeloads off of you??
That's me
That's me
Yeah, you need to give him
Yeah, you need to give him the boot.
I thought you were at least going to have him take the kids to his mom's on his weekends?
This will never end. If the girl has been officially diagnosed, BM could get CS for longer than the usual cut off age. This guy is going to continue to drag you down, financially and emotionally.