So, almost got into it with OSD this weekend. Well, full disclosure, did a little bit.

She had dropped her 3 mo old baby off on Saturday so she could go to a craft show where she was selling some products (like scentsy candle or pampered chef type products.. you know get people to have parties to guilt their friends into buying crap).

The baby was going to stay with MIL over night and she was coming back to get him the next day.

So, we were there when she came over with a friend to pick up the baby. I was talking with MIL about YSD who was having an issue because her EX put a cable bill in her name without her permission. I was helping her to tell them that she didn't sign up.. nor did she want this service.

Anyway, so OSD in her "i am better than you voice" pipes up and says "It serves her right.. karma is a bitch" I turned to her and told her that wasn't nice and that her sister did NOT deserve it. She then comes out and says. "well she was cheating on him and she deserves what she gets... and she posts pictures online where she is wearing almost nothing". (pics in a bathing suit on vacation ..sheesh)

I told her "Pot meet kettle there honey I've seen plenty of you in skimpy clothes and I told her that her sister didn't cheat on the boy and that her EX was not perfect and that her sister had good reasons to break up with him".

I wanted to point at the baby and tell her that little bundle of karma must be from all the times she has been a total and complete bitch. (she got pregnant by accident and is now married to a guy that in her own words she is happy that he is gone a lot because she doesn't even like to talk to him). But I got out of there before I said something that really cut her down..lol.

I know she is really bitter right now. Her sister just got a great promotion and makes more than her older sister. She has her own place. She has two cars she owns. She isn't tied down to some guy she doesn't even like because she got knocked up.

You know what? Family is family and even if someone in my family was in the wrong, I wouldn't go out of my way to spread gossip about them. In this case, she was just assuming something that she had no real knowledge of. Why does she care anyway.. oh yeah... she is so insecure that she is afraid that if someone thinks something bad about her sister then they will think it about her.

I know that her sister was working 7 days a week and busting her tail. Her EX was spending more and more time out drinking with the boys. He wasn't paying his share of bills and she was covering all the costs and meals out etc.. They were living together at the time and she would have had zero chance to see anyone.

I try to stay out of stuff.. but this older daughter makes it so hard to like her sometimes.