My SO works nights which means I'm left with the kids shortly before bedtime. I do story time and put them to bed by 9 while their dad leaves by 8:45 at the latest and that's pushing it.

Some nights aren't a problem but then you have nights like tonight. The kids share a room because we just don't have the ability to rent a 3 bedroom. This means they have bunkbeds. The son is 4 and tiny. He knows he is NOT allowed on the top bunk or on the stairs. They know not to hang off of the end of the top bed. It's about safety. If he fell he'd get hurt and BM would raise hell.

So the BM is on the phone with the kids. They were with dad speaking then brought the phone put to the living room where I am.

First BM is saying that there's no reason the injury to the boys privet parts would keep them from swimming. She saying it's like just like a rash. I left it up to their dad. He's the one caring for it. It's a tear that got infected and is still red so he said no to going to the pool till it's more healed.

So this past week has been crap. Through all the medical bull crap and BM's refusal to communicate / controlling crap she still can't read the stupid visitation agreement.

Since she ignore SO's messages requesting to know where I'm picking them up tonight to the point of flat out ignoring him when he asked at the hospital he finnaly sent today that I would be following the agreement.

She then sent back a message griping that he talked to her mom already and didn't let her decide.

It funny how I got attacked my BM's friend and told that I should be keeping things privet. Yet my boyfriends ex feels free to bitch in her public page about how he doesn't care about the kids since he's demanding they stick to the standard visitation agreement.

She wants to cry that he gets the kids for 6 weeks this summer but they can't handle being away from her one weekend. Odd they seem pretty happy each weekend they are here and she didn't have trouble leaving them with her other family memebers all the time last summer.