I have been starting to keep a log about things going on with bm for when fdh takes her back for more custody. One of the biggest problems are the people who are constantly moving in and out of her house. Last year she had 3 different men who moved in with her within a week that she began dating them. One ended up back in jail for being driving under the influence while on probation and another she constantly fought with and he moved in and out of her house at least 3 times in the last 4 months of the year. He moved back in and fsd6 was always talking about the fighting, things getting thrown against the wall and lots of other stuff. THe last two times he moved back in she ripped out all of her eyelashes. Well then in May he finally moved out again and in less than 2 weeks, some other dude moved in. Fss9 talked about how he had just gotten out of jail. Luckily that only lasted about 2 weeks and he moved out. BM also just told fdh that her sister, her fiancee and their 3 kids moved in with her for awhile. They live in a 3 bedroom, 1 bathroom house. While to me this seems very unstable for the kids and I am sure there will be more to come I am wondering if I am wasting my time logging all this. Of course there are other little things I have logged like ss9 asking to spend more time here but he doesnt want to tell his mom because he says she will be mad at him for it.