I've been asking my DH if we will see the SKs for Christmas (we will have to visit them) and he keeps sighing and saying, "yeah, I guess, I mean, i don't know".

I've asked DH if he is getting SK a specific item on her list she sent and he snapped at me and was like, "I don't know what I'm getting, why are you asking??" (Uhm, maybe so I can get a good price on it if you're buying it anyway?)

He was bashing his ex and saying she taught the SKs no moral compass. When I ask what he means he says that since the divorce ex has never put up a Christmas tree or had Christmas traditions. (WTF putting up a Christmas tree or baking cookies has to do with developing a moral compass, I don't know. I just keep my mouth shut.)