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BM denying visitation again- against CO
SO got an e-mail Monday morning saying... "
The floating day this week isn't gonna be necessary. As stated in court document 2. Letter c. - plaintiff shall be entitled to parenting time every Thursday and one additional floating weekday on either Mon Tues or Wed, such to be determined by MUTUAL AGREEMENT of the parties. The parties shall make best effort to schedule such days IN ACCORDANCE WITH EACH PARTY'S SCHEDULING NEEDS AND PREFERENCES.
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ideas needed
Anyone have any fun activities to do with SD 12 11 & 8 . I don't feel like I have to entertain them but once I get my stuff done around home and if they help I would like to reward them with activities they may enjoy.
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What to do with SD8
SD8 has been having issues respecting people’s boundaries and privacy. SD12 and SD11 have made comments about her not leaving them alone when they are in the bathroom or when they are in their room trying to change or when they simply want to be alone. She never shuts up so I understand them wanting to be alone for a few min.
SD8 will sit outside a locked door and talk to your through the door. I have never had to lock doors before because a shut door is shut for a reason. When she is around you have to lock the door.
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Thinking of a vacation 'clause' (you don't come then you don't get to go)
We have been having issues with SD11 and SD12 not wanting to come here or stay here when there is nothing FUN going on. They want to be here when we have plans for stuff but during the week when we both work they don’t want to be here because it’s boring at home alone.
How do you deal with lying teenagers
We have two soon to be teenagers and they both have recently started causing problems with BM by lying to both us and then them. SD11 and SD12 both tell SO one thing and then their BM another.
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Court tomorrow, should I go?
BM tried to get a PPO against SO last month and the judge denied it. She claims he is a 'flight risk' for SD3. Funny because it was HIS idea to have in the new CO that NEITHER parent can take the child out of state without the other parents permission. He is not a 'flight risk' because he has a job, house, other kids, and no reason to leave the area. She is trying to claim this and that and she is afraid of him.
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O/T- How do you deal with bullying with your kids or Skids
SD11 plays softball and has started a new team this year. She has had some issues with the coaches daughter telling her to do this or do that better. Today it was so bad that SD11 cried during their game.
So the coaches daughter is 12 years old and is 100+ lbs over weight. I am not saying anything about her weight in general but this girl does lack the ability to bend over and touch her toes or for the game sake she can't get her glove on the ground.
Guess BM is going to have to pay when SO wants to see his daugher.
BM decided that she wanted to have a daycare that was closer to her new place, less then 1 mile from her old place. She decided that she didn't want to back-track less then a mile to continue to take her to her current daycare. She didn't tell SO that she was doing it and didn't bother to make sure this daycare would work with the existing court order.
StepMother's Day
The Skids decided that I was being left out and needed to have my own step-mom's day. SO decided that we would do it today since we have all the kids. Now if BM's would only leave us alone today it would be perfect.
I wake up this morning... late they let me sleep in, to all four of them at my bedside with breakfast made. I didn't even hear anyone get up this morning at all. It was so cute, Now I can hear them making me cards in the kitchen but I am to stay in bed Per SD's.
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What an interesting Weekend
We have had ALL 4 girls since Thursday/Friday and they will all be here until Tuesday with SD8 and SD3 going back to their mom's and SD11 and SD12 staying here. It's the first time EVER that we have had ALL 4 girls with us for this long. WE normally only get EOW. Let's just say it's been different having them all here. I used to think, I would love to have them all here all the time but now .... UMMMM, Re-thinking the idea.
I know not having any bio's makes things different. I sort of jumped into the role of FSM head first not knowing what to expect.
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