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Disengaged but missing them, am I crazy!

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Submitted by crushed step-mom on Wed, 06/12/2013 - 7:44am

been disengaged from my 4 SK's for a month now. It's so weird seems like they have all died or something, I miss them , they have been in my life for 14 years. I cannot understand how they all came to hate me. I felt we had made it as a blended family and never knew how they really felt about me until the blow up! Somedays... I feel this is going to be a new wonderful life for my DH and I, but I still can't find comfort just yet. I worry that he will rethink it all and start to blame me. Sad

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Submitted by crushed step-mom on Wed, 06/12/2013 - 8:17am

OMG..your post is exactly how I feel and how my life is as well. They have emotionally drained me and I can only imagine what they are telling people. I have already heard their dad has chosen his F-in wife over his blood kids.

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Submitted by crushed step-mom on Wed, 06/12/2013 - 9:15am

SK's feel like they are entitled because they are SK's, it's crazy! My SK's say I control their dad too. They drain you with all their drama and feeling sorry for themselves! :jawdrop:

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 06/12/2013 - 9:07am

^^Oh yeah. I wish I had a dollar for everytime I've heard that my wife has chosen me over her kids. And my SKIDS are all in their 20's which just makes it ridiculous. Bunch of spoiled brats.

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Submitted by frustratedstepdad on Wed, 06/12/2013 - 8:57am

It's tough being a step-parent. You feel like you give, give, give....and all you get in return is hate and anger. It's a shitty deal and causes lots of mental stress. I hope the therapy works for you.