Well, I haven't had much to vent about in a while, so I haven't been on here.

So....last Wednesday, my SO and I find out that we've been selected together, as a couple, to build a new house. (Housing grant and a loan)

BM finds out about this through SO telling SD over the phone. We expect BM to freak out....and we wait. What does she do? She calls SO and CONGRATULATES him, says she's really happy for all of us. He tells me this, and I tell him IT'S FAKE. You know her. She's a flippin bipolar nutjob. A week passes.
What does she do now?
Starts to flip out on my SO.

CS payments are delayed right now, and SO thought it was because of him not working a few weeks, here and there. She calls him up to give him crap about how the gov't called her and notified her that she hasn't received any CS since Nov. She then proceeds to say HE owes their daughter $-x- , so he should go out and buy her blah blah blah. SO tells her it's not his problem that she hasn't received any CS. She flips and the storm begins.

SO calls gov't to ask about the CS payments. Gov't says he's up to date on his payments, that it's on THEIR end why it's delayed.

SD's birthday is coming up this weekend. BM calls SO to tell him she bought SD a $300 dog, and for SD's bday, we should buy her a leash for the dog, and toys etc. SO says NO WAY, we're gonna get her things she WANTS, like toys...not a stupid leash for her dog. Well, BM flips out and starts with the CS issue again. Says that SO should contribute to the dog she bought SD. He tells her she didn't need a flippin $300 dog, and she should be spending her money on things SD NEEDS, not "wants". She flips and says she buys SD everything she wants, thats it, thats all. Says it's her that buys SD everything she needs, and SO doesn't contribute as much as she does. She then starts threatening him about taking him to court again for MORE CS, because he makes more $$$ now, than what he did before. The kicker about this is--HE went BANKRUPT to build the house BM and SD are living in!!! He put every penny he DIDN'T have into a home that was ultimately for his daughter. And the witch has the nerve to say she wants MORE CS, that SO doesn't contribute to SD as much as she does....well, I can't wait til this goes to court and she asks for MORE CS, and we pull out the bankruptcy card.

It's our turn to build a house, and the loan we get will be based solely on MY income. SO can't contribute in the credit department because he got discharged only 3 years ago. So because of the fat witch whining and complaining to get her way when they built a few years ago, we can't build a house TOGETHER the WAY WE WANT because he went bankrupt for her. (She wanted brick, a finished basement, all brand new furniture and appliances etc...)

AND, we were talking about getting married last night. The when and where. We came to a conclusion, that we cannot legally get married where we live, because BM being the way she is, would take US to court, and request MORE CS because our incomes would be combined. I told him last night- I pay for your daughter when she comes over, and I buy her things too, but I will NEVER dish out money to the BM from MY pockets, to support her. EFF THAT. Now, we've decided to elope, and it won't be legal...but symbolic. With rings and everything. Legal in Vegas if we go there....but no transfer of paperwork or anything.

Don't you wish these people would just go away?
Ahhh, one can only dream.