Well, as of Friday, the bm has decided to stop talking to my SO.
She will not answer the phone if he calls for his daughter. She makes her bf answer.
If she has anything to tell my SO about the SD, she will get her bf to call, and play secretary.
When we had SD this past weekend, every time she called her mom using SO's cell, the bf would answer, not the bm.

Ummm....ok....I am kinda in the middle about this one.

Sure, it's good, we are probably getting through to her, fighting for our rights to the SD (refer to Disney blog entries lol) and she claimed she had to talk to her "Dr." (therapist) about our Disney trip. Oh yeah! She "admitted" that my SO was right about everything he has said to her about having equal rights to the SD. I have a feeling this has something to do with it. She doesn't wanna talk to my SO and open her mouth again about her feelings, for fear of us being "right" with the comebacks and questions we will have for her. Maybe she is mad that we are right.

Well, I don't mind this at all. She keeps her mouth shut, therefore my SO has nothing to bitch about, and I don't think about how dumb she is.

On the other hand, what puzzles me, is the bm is acting childish. That's my opinion anyways. Step up, you are a parent! Talk to the father of your child in a respecful, mature way. Don't get your bf to do your work. I mean, how would she like it if I were to communicate with her about her daughter, just relaying messages that my SO is giving me. HAH! Entering crazyville. She's giving her bf all of the authority in the world over the SD. But me? Nope, not allowed a sniff of authority. My SO doesn't mind that he has to talk to her bf. He is friends with him, and he finds it more pleasant.

Obviously she cannot communicate in a respectful manner, so she chooses to not communicate at all!

Meh. Life with the SD is better without her bitching.