OMG I caught my SD peeking in our bedroom this weekend too!! She got up VERY early in the morning Saturday, and I'm a really light sleeper so I heard her go down the stairs to use the bathroom. Afterwards, she came back up the stairs, but not all of them. I knew something was off cause I know the sound of those stairs very well (it was my great-grandparents' house) and it didn't seem like she came up all the way. I opened my eyes just in time to see our door open slightly (the latch part of the door is broken so you don't need to turn the knob to open it, you just push). I could just make out a shadow through the crack of the door opening, but I put two and two together since our house is 1.5 storeys and both rooms upstairs are on either side of the top of the stairs, so if she didn't come up all of the stairs, she could have kind-of crouched or laid down across the top few steps to stay close to the ground, and poke the door open to spy inside. I should have gotten up and busted her right away, but I was just so creeped out, I froze up. A few minutes later I heard the last few steps creak and she went back into her room. I told FH when he woke up but he didn't believe me. She does it to her mom all the time and actually once heard things she didn't want to hear as a result of it! I just think it's so disturbing that she would be peeking into our room while we were sleeping...I teach 12 year-olds and have for a while, and they are all obssessed with sex, and I'm sure she is too (especially after what she heard at her mom's)...basically kids that age think that everyone is doing it all the time any time they are alone, but few have the nerve to actually try to peek...I just wish I had gotten up and thrown the door open, busting her...I'll make sure that the shock has worn off so I have the nerve to do that next time...

Bm got engaged to her then boyfriend almost immediately following the announcement of our marriage. A year and a half into our marriage she unceremoniously dumped her fiance for someone else, who she happened to have already been sleeping with. Dumped fiance then spent the next three months texting dh all her dirty little secrets and attempting to cry on his proverbial shoulder. Bm spent those months texting dh and telling him that the guy was stalking her and that she wanted to take out a restraining order. The situation resulted in dh temporarily suspending BM's visitation rights, which he had every legal right to do under our CO. Also, when we got a house, bm got a house. when ss got bunkbeds, bm's fiance bought bunkbeds, when i died my hair bm died her hair, when i went back to school, bm went back to school (briefly). Lesson: BM be crazy. yo.