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they are MY brothers...... why wasn't I invited.... (SD17 and her bullshit drama)
So after last thursday and all the drama with SD and BM... my SO has been on edge. It's been a long weekend. I feel like he kinda took his anger out on me regarding the mean calls and the texts from them. I decided to go out with the girls on FRIDAY!! Yep my ONLY night for sex and I chose to go with the girls. We went to see Magic Mike :jawdrop:
BM strikes again... AND I'M READY TO DIAL HER NUMBER
Another call today. This one worse then the others. I think she sat down and wrote down a list of all the things she hates about SO and threw it all at him. And with the cherry of you are a poor excuse for a father. You are nothing......
Then having the NERVE to say while I'M living high on the hog.... EXCUSE ME?????? My kids and I are struggling just to have dinners more then 3 nghts a week and that's HIGH ON THE HOG????? WHAT THE FUCK!!!!! I am at a boiling point today.
replay of last year on SO birthday........
SO birthday is next week. And three of our kids birthdays are this week. We planned to have one big party on the 4th of July. My brother is on his way from Cali (we have only seen eachother a handful of times)on Wednesday so we were going to go pick him up from the airport then head up for the birthdays. SO tells me well SD17 is going to be invited so if you want you can go to your families while we are over at our property...
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The good and the bad of the first two weeks of skids.....
So as you all know SD17 chose to stay with her mother's mom. Which of course has been a NIGHTMARE. Grandma has no hold on her. She is out 24-7. And BM is lighting up our phone about it. Saturday night she posted a pic of herself in a half shirt, black mini skirt leopard nylons and heels with the caption of "fresh" underneath it. Now I don't know what "fresh" means but it can't be good and she was headed to a party with some people. BM called my SO around 10pm. He didn't answer. I was so proud of him. The next day we took our boys to MIL for breakfast and SD17 was there.
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he is sooooooo tired that he can't stay up past eight most night BUT.....
I guess I am just a little sad today. SO can't seem to keep his eyelids open most of the week past 8pm. He works 6:30am to 2:30pm....... And sometimes he is ready for bed by 7:30pm. BUT on the nights he goes for his "guy" time (every wednesday night) it gets later and later. First few weeks he was home by 8:30. Don't get me wrong I 100% trust him. I know who he is with where he is etc. Last night it was 10:45 before he got home. I had gone to bed. I guess I just don't get it. All this energy for stuff on Wednesday nights but sex is only on Fridays cuz he is ohhhh so tired all the time.
Private Goodbye Ceremony to my Sex Life
Last night I had a private in my head goodbye ceremony to my sex life. Or the one I had anyway (which was only on fridays) Now that skids are here all of that goes bye bye. Because SS11 barges in MY room anytime he feels like it so SO won't have anything to do with me while they are visiting. So it looks like the end of August for me. I'm sure this sounds kind hilarious and possibly untrue but let me assure you it's not. He gave me a "break the rules quicky" on sunday before he left to get them. Which left me feeling sad and used. Ugh.........
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NIGHTMARE FATHER'S DAY BM AND HER ENTITLEMENT ISSUES AND SELFISH SD17 truly felt for my SO
So here we go........... SO got a text from BM #1. Same old shit. I went out and spent x amount of dollars on new summer clothes and bikes. You owe me half and I need it now. Me shaking my head OMGOSH that's what you give her all that money for EVERY TWO WEEKS. Child Support is for! We have all 6 of our kids Birthday's to pay for right now. ALL their birthdays fall within 30 days of each other. This woman NEVER stops. She is relentless. Happy Freaken Father's Day.....
SS3 pants on backwards???
Just got SS3. They were three hours late. He arrives to us like this:
Pants on backwards
Shirt so big its to his knees
Filthy dirty face, hands, clothes
No socks.... wal mart shoes (meaning stinky dirty feet)
An entire bag of moldy smelling clothes and blankets.
Most of those I am use to. But come on. The kids pants are on backwards? You have got to be freaken kidding me. How damn lazy can a parent be?
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update on the BIG LIE
I'm going to keep this short because I just feel sad today and out of umph and honestly just defeated. I confronted him on the lie. So this is where it stands. Papers to BM #2 have been sent out certified mail. BM #1 everything had been taken care of but low and behold when they did CS 4 years ago the CS order said He would pay her x amount not the full amount (it was a 100 difference). BUT out of the kindness of her cold heart she verbally told him the 100 less would work.
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ABOSLUTELY FUMING THIS MORNING..... SO LIED ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT
So SO has gone to see our lawyer regarding CS. Not to long ago he took a different job. He had been giving BM #1 $1000 and BM #2 $500 a month for skids. Well last month (thank god) our attorney had the Child Support Division redo our support. He makes $12.50/hr. So it went from $1000 to 600 for BM #1 and to $200 to BM #2. Both of which who refuse to work and rely soley on him to take care of them and of course their current hubbys (BM #1 not married but been with him for 4 years BM #2 married) each BM lies to the state regarding skids. Each mom milks the state in food stamps etc.