So most of the summer has gone ok. Except a few things with SD and BM. And BM #2. But overall SO has stepped up and shown me he isn't putting up with things. SD did not spend one night with us this summer NOR was she allowed on any outtings we shared with the boys. And he has done very well ignoring BM #1 when she calls. He is only answering if she leaves a message and it concerns something that is a NEED. Like pick up time for this sunday or kids appointments etc. Heck she even called a bunch of the kids doctors here and made appointments demanding he take them and he cancelled them all.

So SO has been paying on credit cards that he and BM racked up since 2007. He has been paying $243 every month for 5 years. He still has one year left on them. He also paid off their loan they took out on one of their many houses (13,000) and he took care of misc doctors and dentist bills. Yet she always seems to find something to say he hasn't paid for.... evidently when she takes the skids to the doctor or dentist these days she never pays the co-pays or the balance OR lets SO know that there is a balance. All the mail for these current bills are going to her home.

I need some 411 from the ladies here....

I get home today from work and SO tells me his niece (she is HIS ex wifes niece) has court tomorrow in the town we live in and she will be staying the night with us.... are you FUCKING kidding me? Did we not have the worst sunday ever because your ex wife and her CRAZY family.....

I say um isn't this BM's niece? Well yes he says but she's one of the kids we helped take care of for three years... (dont even get me started on the WHY they had to take her from BM's sister) that in itself is an entire other blog.