So much happened this weekend I feel no control over my life. I feel anger and bitterness and I just want to puke.

First we FINALLY got SS3. BM #2 let him stay with her mom (since she has ANOTHER baby now, that makes 5) so her mom called us to see if we wanted SS3 for a few days. She met SO at the door and followed us out to the car. Told us she went to stay with BM #2 to help with the new baby and the other 4 kids last week. She said the new hubby is controlling, and she felt abusive to the kids and her daughter. And when she confronted him on how he was treating the kids and her he threw her out of the house. She told my SO that she feels it's best that we have SS3 full time. But then asked SO not to tell BM #2 that she told us. We already have a lot of paperwork rolling regarding all the skids BM #1 an BM #2. But we are calling our attorney today to find out what we can do if anything at all.... I am sick to my stomach over this. ALL this time I KNEW something fishy was going on. She won't every answer her phone and when we DO get a call back it's her hubby and only her hubby. She NEVER calls back and never texts back. I always felt that when they ignored us on our scheduled time maybe something was wrong and they didn't want us to see SS3 because of possibly bruises. I know that sounds over the top on my way of thinking but now that the mother has so much as told us the screaming and the demanding of control from that man is over the top and abusive I feel my gutt was right all along. I know that in our state the mothers are favored considerably I hope to God we stand a chance. Thank goodness he has joint custody of his son. I am hoping that will help.

Ok now onto the next level of make me puke.

SD17 called yesterday demanding that we let SS15 go stay with her at her grammys for a week. My SO told her he just got back from camp and we haven't seen him in a week he isn't coming there. He can go swim today with you but he isn't going to go stay there for a week. He then told her that it was her mom's mother and if BM #1 wants the boys to spend time with her then she can do it on her scheduled time in the summer. That we get 6 weeks. That's all. And that's our time. SD17 made a choice to stay there for the summer the boys DID NOT. She proceeded to scream and yell at him telling him he was being childish and immature regarding the situation so he said I'm not talking about this to you and he hung up. She then called back... did you hang up on me? He said yes because I'm not going to listen to that shit. Then he hung up again (she began yelling at him) THEN he got a 8 page text from BM #1. She told him SD17 misses her brothers and he was not being a father to a daughter he swore to love and protect. And that she is just 17 and he needs to fix their issues. He is her father and he better start acting like it. Then she threw out the you aren't being a Christian and you are all smoke and mirrors. And you are worthless and an idiot and an entire paragraph of what a poor excuse for a dad he is. And how he is defying God and what God wants him to do for his daughter. And how he isn't being a TRUE Christian. Then she told him that if he didn't take the boys to her mothers' she was going to ahere STRICTLY to their parenting plan from this day forward and he will not like it.... Um seriously has she read their parenting plan? HE gets them every other weekend every other holiday (which is MORE then what she has been giving him for over a year) AND six UNINTERUPTED weeks of summer vacation. I think that bitch ought to check herself before she starts making threats.

AND to throw him under the bus regarding God??? Are you kidding me? She is nothing but a fraud. ON EVERY ASPECT OF HER LIFE. She is lying about an entire slew of things. Not to mention they are letting SD17 DRIVE with NO LICENSE NO INSURANCE....... yes the grandmother gave her a van and she drives it all over the place. I find it comical that when SD17 is with her mother and acting up and being a complete bitch that BM #1 calls us and says come get her she is kicked out and it's all SD17 fault for her attitude and what is going on BUT when she comes here and acts out it's ALL SO fault and none of the blame is on SD17. They gang up on him. SM #1 tells SD that he is immature and a bad father bla bla bla bla.......

SO did NOT reply to ANY texts that she sent him. Then SD texted and said... your plan is fine for now but when mom comes it will be different. He did not respond to that either. I was so proud of him for not letting either of them get a reaction from him. That is what those bitches want. I wish I could post on here the text BM #1 sent him. I was flabergasted by what she called him and how she manipulated everything. Needless to say it did damper the entire day sunday. The boys were confused. We try to explain but it's such a touchy subject. SO just told them until SD can treat him with respect he has no intentions of talking to her. And because this is HIS scheduled time they won't be going to BM's mothers. Which the boys understood that.

I feel so drained and so tired. This constant drama is exhausting me mentally. And it just puts a damper on my every day mood. And we don't even want to discuss how long it's been since SO touched me. Like I said in a earlier blog.... "goodbye sex life"