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Submitted by Bradymom on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 10:28pm

The husband & I met with an insurance agent... He says, "I met with your ex mother in law to sell her insurance recently, she's different... Even when she's in a good mood, she's still not really nice, huh? & boy her mouth is like a sailor! Wow. I've never heard anything like it. I met your ex. You must be a saint! I couldn't hardly stand 5 minutes with that woman!" Every person I've ever come into contact says the exact same thing about these two women. It's crazy! Those are his clients. & some days I wonder why the kids are ill behaved? How coukd they not be right? Ugh.

12 degrees--- put your kid in a tank top! Smart!

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Submitted by Bradymom on Sat, 01/10/2015 - 10:57pm

It's 12 degrees here today. Step daughter 10 wore a floral shear tank top & skin tight capri cheetah leggings that are 2 sizes too small! But don't get upset too quickly... She had high heel boots on!!! Dear lord!!! I don't get it. Why on earth would you send your kid out of the house like that?! Especially to their dad's house!!! I'm beginning to think she does this on purpose. But what kind of person dresses their kid inappropriate to spite their dad & step mom? It only makes HER look bad & her daughter feel bad. Does anyone have this situation?

Took my Saturday back

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Submitted by Bradymom on Sat, 01/10/2015 - 10:01am

I decided that if my husband has to work, his kids are going to their moms. They are really annoying, u thankful kids. I'm an activity mom & their mom isn't. I'm sick of doing things for them, getting treated bad, not getting a thank you, etc. I've asked them before if they'd rather go to their mom when dad has to work or stay with me, they say stay. They say the reason is all they do is watch Netflix & they never do anything & their mom yells all day. I've told them if they don't show gratitude & have better attitudes when they're with me they'll be going to their moms.

Bio mom is dumb!

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 01/09/2015 - 10:28pm

Bio mom thinks it's funny to let 5 dogs out every time we pick up & drop off the kids at their house in the country. They charge our car. Apparently she thinks it's funny when they jump up on our new car. This has been happening for the 5 years I've been around & before. The kids say their mom tells them to let the dogs out your dad is on the way. Well all these years... We accidentally hit one of their dogs. We weren't sure. It was raining & dark. We turned around & tried to look.

Self focused bm

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Submitted by Bradymom on Mon, 01/05/2015 - 10:02pm

My husband finally asked his ex why his son (13) doesn't have a winter coat & is wearing a 2 year old sweatshirt & high water pants. He pays $1500 a month child support. The custody evaluator said he is to text her ever time she sends the kids in clothes that are too small, mismatched, dirty, tattered, unacceptable in anyway. This is the first time he has! Her response: to the pants: he's growing so fast, I'll be buying him clothes on break (yeah I bet--- I can't wait to see the clothes this Friday-- husband will have to ask about the clothes again...

Always babying the babies :belch:

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Submitted by Bradymom on Thu, 01/01/2015 - 11:29pm

My husband treats his kids like they're mentally retarded. It drives me nuts. For instance. We are doing a home project. His ten year old daughter is at our house. We have to run to the hardware store 2 blocks away. She's watching a movie. He tells he to put it on pause. She needs to come. Why??? She's ten. It's two blocks away. Really? There's no other kids at home. She's watching a movie. She's not a mischievous child. What the heck. This is just an example of one thing. It's constant. So. Annoying. I am always reminding him of their ages & what is normal for that age.

It is what it is...

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Submitted by Bradymom on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 5:28pm

Ok. We are on a very expensive get away. Step daughter 10. Is sitting on the floor crying. She tells my husband "sometimes I just stare at the wall & cry" He talks to her a bit & after awhile she tells him her mom told her everyone is going to be mean to her on the trip & leave her while skiing & she will be all alone & have a terrible time, etc. he talks to his son 14. He confirms that he overheard conversations of this. & yes there is a history of parent alienation. I am so over this!!! It totally effects the mood of the entire day & of everyone.

Nothing left

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Submitted by Bradymom on Sun, 12/28/2014 - 12:30am

We had a custody evaluation done several months ago. The evaluator stressed to my husband & I that she believes bio mom is grooming her son to say something sexually inappropriate has happened. This is absolutely believable, as bio mom is beyond a lair & she has already made horrendous claims that have been handled thru counseling with my husband, his kids & her. The lies come out. But during the weeks until they can get in for an appointment, it's horrible.

7 months of no court!

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Submitted by Bradymom on Tue, 09/09/2014 - 1:16pm

I haven't posted for a long time. I had to take a break.

Lots have changed, some not so much.

My ex & I are doing a lot better. We no longer own property together & for a man, I think that means a lot. This is the longest I have gone without being served papers or having a motion in the court. 7 months in 5 years. That's a start!

I have many more updates but I'll start there. Smile

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