Do you wish your ex a happy birthday? How bout a Merry Christmas? Easter? Thanksgiving? Say you miss talking to them?!?!?!

Thankfully my court order says we can only text or email ABOUT THE KIDS & can only SPEAK in the event of an emergency. And you bet your butt if my ex said anything to me that began with Happy or Merry, I would remind him of our order. It's not about being civil. It's about-- what the heck does this have to do with this kids? We can't stand each other.

I spoke to my attorney yesterday. We have a big court date approaching within a week. It was pretty bad. I couldn't remember facts, I was stumbling over words, I kept apologizing, it was terrible. Not like my usual self. We were just in court in December. It's a pretty big difference. I hope I can get thru it. It cannot be postponed. It's already been moved twice. It's been over a year that the motion has been filed.

I had a ischemic stroke on 1/16. I think I'm getting better, then I go & open my mouth about something important & it comes out all jumbled. Ugh.

We are completely the Disneyland parents. I think we are. We don't always spend money but the second the kids walk through the door the world revolves around them. It's activities, wether it's games & crafts, parks & calls to get people together for a basketball game... or spending money going places...

My son pulled me aside, to tell me his grandma has breast cancer.

My ex mother in law. I never knew her mother, she died of breast cancer. She only lived 3 weeks after being diagnosed. She is funding the mega custody battle we are always in, she's a terrible person. Rigid & unable to give appropriate love & raised two monsters.

I was able to tell my son I was sorry & told him to just love her & the adults would work things out & grandma is in good care.

Maybe this will slow Mr. Asshole down with his bullshit motions every 3 months!!!