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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 03/21/2014 - 11:40am

So stepson12 1/2 received 2 D's & an F last grading period, playing NO SPORTS. The school policy is any F's no sports the following grading period, anymore than 2 D's no sports, also. Sounds awesome. I agree.

So bio mom puts him in football. It's not a school sport. It's independent. Whatever. Now he's in a school sport. The policy is written BUT apparently she got school to agree to allow him to play.

Thumbs down on midweek visit.

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 03/21/2014 - 8:36am

Midweek visit. Pick kids up from school. Sounds simple enough. In theory. Well because of parent alienation & trying to get bio mom to a place of "comfort" to release control. The counselor (4th in line now, by court order) suggests this is how it goes.

DH & bio mom go to school. Park by each other. Kids come out of school. Kids give bio mom backpacks & say HI. then get in car with DH.

If I've learned one thing on this site...

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Submitted by Bradymom on Sun, 03/16/2014 - 11:37am

It is...

HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE.

Someone pops of hurtful to me, I mosey on over to their blog. Whoa. Sad I'm sorry for the pain you are going through also. I'd like I lash out & dish it back, because I have serving utensils... I've learned that hurting when I'm hurting only brings one thing... A need for more Kleenex. & I'm already hurt enough my goodness. I came for support, not to be hurt more. Sheesh.

What now? :(

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 03/14/2014 - 4:41am

I talked to DH about the situation. I said since my stroke (1/16) I felt like DH has allowed his son (12 1/2) to behave very poorly. I thought we were making progress but now we are right back to him crying like a baby, him kicking the car seats, demanding all the talking time, running to his room, constantly crying "bullied" etc. And I understand that I am tired, I can't steer family activities, help support him, help with meals, etc.

Just wanna go swimming.

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Submitted by Bradymom on Wed, 03/12/2014 - 4:58pm

Three weeks in a row I have ditched DH & skids on the midweek visit. Why? Because I can't stomach the smell of them. Seriously. Since my stroke I'm sensitive to smell.

Okay it's not just that. They bicker constantly & I usually steer the family activities & I haven't had the energy to. Also I have only made a few meals & I'm not eating much myself & I'm just really not into their lies & shit.

No crap. This is an interaction.

Is it bad to ask to have them bathed?

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Submitted by Bradymom on Wed, 03/12/2014 - 4:46pm

The skids come tonight & can already smell them. Seriously. Your daughter gets lice. You bathed her & combed her hair for a week, bio moth. You would think it coulda lasted longer... I don't know... Like FOREVER. The school said it was the WORSE CASE THEYVE EVER SEEN. nits (eggs) lice & mature lice. That would be THREE GENERATIONS OF LICE. ugh. Would it be wrong to text "please have kids bathe tonight before we pick them up" ?

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