Dh and I were invited by friends to an event to support their child. This friend is related to DH's ex. EX originally told friend she was going to go then backed out because she didn't want to make me "feel uncomfortable." I have the DH why should I feel uncomfortable. Later after speaking with the friends, EX got into an arguement with our friend saying, "you chose them over family and its just not right." Friend's response, "they chose us, they make the effort to go to birthday parties, events, you bail every time" Ex then proceed to tell the friend that my DH says to her he loves her and should have married her instead of me. She's accused him of cheating prior to our marriage and now she's doing this stuff again. I'm afraid she's going to boil my bunny or worse get pregnant and claim its his. I have to be civil and keep my mouth shut but I have anxiety issues which cause me physical pain. I want this to end but DH won't do things such as meeting at a place instead of taking SS directly home. I'm tired of her drama, i'm tired of her dragging SS in this, and i'm tired of the accusations. If I could legally do something I would.