I drop off future SS8 at daycare the other day and they come up to me asking me to fill out some paper work because some information was missing. Basically his BM's info was blank on the Emergency contact info.

I just said oh that is not me I am on the list but I am not the BM, SS8 was out of ear shot for all this. I also mentioned just in case she is never to be contacted and if by random she calls she is not allowed. Literally court documents say so.

I know strange title for this blog but it is about a few things.

1. I think the future in-laws mentioned to SS8 about getting a cell phone again and they would pay for it. SO does not want his son to have a cell he is way too young and I agree. This was brought up at dinner on Sunday when we had all the parents over and his sister to celebrate Father's Day! They said they would do so they could get a hold of SS8. They can call my SO or even me it is not like I won't give him the phone to talk.

The kid that SS hurt is going to be ok. They were able to fix him up.

I got more of the story last night too. SS broke a big rule and is in big trouble. For those of you who keep saying my SO does not parent he does. He is the one that is always laying down the punishments. This time no tablet/video games, he lost the privilege of having a T.V. in his room out our house, no friends coming over or him going to a friends house for a while...probably a month.

Not trying to hog things today but the future in-laws make me crazy.

I asked my SO if he told SS8 about the great grandfather passing away. He told me he was going to but already knew because my future FIL told him this morning before school. SO was still at work he switched to nights. I know none of my business I get it. Oh man it makes me crazy though when both his parents have both said things to me about how my SO should do more and he does not parent his son all the time, and they raised SS8 and basically make it seem like my SO has done nothing.