My husband has decided he wants us to move to the same town as his adult kids and grandkids. We now live several hours away from them. I don’t really want to do this, I don’t really want to live in that town plus his adults kids won’t talk to me and I don’t get to see the grandkids.. The move would be great for him as now he can see them anytime he wants but for me I’m afraid of feeling more like an outsider living so close and never being included.

So my husband announces he wants to spend 4 days a month, every month with his kids. Adult kids and grandchildren. They will not have anything to do with me and most likely glad they don’t have to see me since they have chosen to disinclude and or not deal with me anymore (long story but really no huge issues just I spoke up for once about what I considered some disrespect and instead of us talking about it, they just cut me off). Given that I am not included and am suppose to be okay with it all, and focus on the 26 days I get him every month.