My husband has decided he wants us to move to the same town as his adult kids and grandkids. We now live several hours away from them. I don’t really want to do this, I don’t really want to live in that town plus his adults kids won’t talk to me and I don’t get to see the grandkids.. The move would be great for him as now he can see them anytime he wants but for me I’m afraid of feeling more like an outsider living so close and never being included.