I am emotionally exhausted and I'm not sure the hard part has even started. I've been married just over 2 years. DH has a 12 year old son that he really didn't have a relatiinship with until we started dating 3 years ago. Now BM wants the preteen to come live with us bc she feels that he needs a good male role model. She has 2 other young kids and I think she just wants a break. I don't feel like I can say no but I'm screaming on the inside. I have no children and am enjoying my newlywed, spontaneous lifestyle of travel and leisure which I know will change with a preteen around. What do I do? I've known me all my life and i k
:O now that this is going to be a problem for me.