My BS will probably head to jail when he turns 18, and I couldn't care less.
For those of you who read my last blog about the counselor, she pointed out to him that he was breaking his probation. 1. By not listening to me and 2. By not taking his meds everyday.
Lets see we saw her on Wed. of last week, so it was Thursday I got a phone call from my sons PO. Im like "what the hell"! The PO tells me that my BS was involved in a police matter Wed afternoon. Ummm OK?!? Apparently when we got out of counseling I dropped him off uptown to walk to his gf house, he went to XH Xgf parents house to see XH others kids. He was babysitting them while Mel (XH XGF nickname) ran out to get RX. The youngest one apprently ran out of the house while my BS didnt know and some lady had him for over 10 minutes until my son came out to get him. By then the police had been called. But , of course my BS doesnt tell me any of this.
So I figured while I had PO on the phone I would tell him whats been going on with BS. Well, he wanted us up to the courthouse NOW! (that is where his office is). I brought up how on Wed. when he was babysitting he should have to at work, but was a no call no show. BS tried telling PO he read the schedule wrong. I called him out on it right in front of PO. I let him know that BS told me on more than 3 occassions that he had to work Wed.
PO told BS that he needs to call his head boss and apologize and to find out when he works next. (this past Sat.) He was to also turn in this other application he had for another place. And I was to call Dr to see if he should start back on his meds full dose or if he should take 1/2 dose. (my BS hasnt taken his meds in over a month..ADHD and ODD)
Well, yesterday I joted a quick little email to PO to let him know the outcome of everything he wanted done.
1. I did call Dr. she wants him back on them full dose NOW.
2. BS did NOT turn in application.
3. BS did NOT call boss. As a matter of fact boss called me wanting to know if they should expect him in to work for this past Sat. I told them NO as he went to the beach and not to believe him if he called saying there was a family emergency. His boss told me that if BS didnt show up he would no longer have a job. So of course my son has no job. And not done anythign his PO just told him to do.
My BS probably doesnt even know he doesnt have a job yet, I havent said anything. I want to see how long it will be before he says something about not having a job. This is his 2cd job he has lost in 1 1/2 years due to no call no shows!

So I am pretty sure that they are keeping record of all this shit, and when BS turns 18 they will take his ass into court and put him in jail...I hope they do, it MIGHT straighten him out....(not holding my breath)