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BD is going to be the death of me.....

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My Bd20 has been with her bf24 for just over 1 yr. He's pretty nice, but he's immature like she is.
Monday night she comes over and springs it on me and then DH that she is pregnant!! I didn't believe her, so I made her get papers from hospital to prove it. Well, she is, and is almost 8 weeks. The papers show that she found out back on Sept 6, and she hadn't told us. Come to find out they told his mom, sister and my BS all before me and Dh!!! I'm not happy.
Neither one of them have a job, steady place to live. (she lives with my ex and he lives with his parents)

Bio-son drops a bomb on us today

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I cannot believe what my BS(almost 21) sprang on my DH and I today!!
But a little back story first:
My son introduced us to his GF(she's just shy of 19) shortly before Halloween. She's a really pretty girl, nice(that we knew of), and my son was smitten with her. Well, last weekend I guess he found out she was texting her exbf. Now we are understanding that nothing happened with said ex and her bc she is ALWAYS around my son.
My son and her are living with my XH and his wife. (the kids' new stepmom...no problem there she's really nice and we get along.)

So it starts again

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Oss comes over today around 130 to"visit" and he's still here. It's around 6pn
As i write this he's upstairs shaving and getting ready to go to AA . He keeps telling dh that he had a job and some guy is coming to get him at 6am to take him. Do he's implying that he staying here.
What gall! !!! I've said no way. Dh says he feels the same way but. ..... it's storming out and he doesnt want to kick him out in that. .......

I need wine!

oldest ss trying to guilt trip dh

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Oldest ss has been in jail for the last 10 days, or So. He just got out today and called dh asking if he could pick him up to go get his stuff and if he could "just store my stuff (aka clothes)at your house and be able to charge my phone". This was this morning around 11:30. Dh told him he was busy he'd call later. Dh and i talked and i told him no way in hell is he staying here even 1 night. Ss calls back around 230 wanting to know what's up, if he can stay.

dd might be prego

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I took my dd18 grocery shopping and she picked up 2 pregnancy tests. I straight up asked her if she was pregnant. She said that she thinks so. She took a test this morning and 2 lines shows up immediately but by the time the urine filed the whole area the second line disappeared.
When e were done shopping we came back to my house and i had her take another one. It came up negative. .. but it might be to early. I know the best time to take one is first thing in the morning do that's what she's going to do.

update on SS moving back in with us....

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Smile Things have gone amazingly smooth. He has been out everyday putting in applications, or online. Today he had 3 interviews!!
He asks before he gets into anything, to make sure its not for his dad's lunch or a special treat of ours.
Cleans up after himself. Other than seeing him coming or going, it's almost like hes not here. If he won't be home that night, he calls/texts ME to let me know. He has helped out when I need help, even without me asking.

Would you.....?

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My SS21 came over today and asked if he could talk to his dad and me. I told him that his dad was sleeping, so he could go to work tonight. So he sat down with me and asked me if he could come stay here, with us, for a while. I asked him what a "while" is and he said maybe a month or two.
He has been living with his brother (who has been in trouble with the drugs and all) and he just wants to get out of there, since his brother hasn't changed his ways. He wants to get his life in order, and get his own place, and car.

Seriously SS?!?!?!? Drugs

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Well, hello all, haven't been on in a long time. Things have been going very well, until now.
Today in the paper I saw that my SS23 (and his housemates) were all arrested for possession of Oxycodone. SS23 was also charged with tampering, and trafficing. They labeled him one of the ares biggest dealers.
Apparently his bail is $1000. BM,her mom, and SS21 and friends gathered up $$ to bail him out. But they are still short. They are asking DH for $$ also.
Dh has told me that he is NOT helping to bail him out b/c he got himself into this and he can pay the price.

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