COMPLICATED TWIST- input please
SO just about 5 mins ago my BF got the news that his BM was dropping all the charges on him because bascailly once we were all investigated, she was found to be an unfit parent and pathological lair. She had taken out a 50B and Child Abuse charges on him bc he spanked him in day care; REAL REASON bc she bought be a car. He lost all contact with his 2 children and in the past month was granted Sunday visits.
MY QUESTION: he just told me that the guardian admin? will have the judge order to put in court documents that she is not allowed to bad mouth me or the childrens father to the children anymore, nor is she allowed to bascailly pull these stunts anymore. WILL SHE STILL CONTINUE TO DO THIS OR ARE THESE COURT ORDERS A JOKE?? --confused
I feel like he could see in my face the dissappointment in knowing the kids would be back tuesdays and EOW..Ive just gotten so used to just seeing them on sundays, will it be hard to adjust again?? Im going to try my best to stay positive, and take pleny of adivan.
Sorry but court orders are a
Sorry but court orders are a joke. They are intentionally written poorly so that the parents will continue with the animosity and continue to make the lawyers rich and give the judges the power to "control" what the parents do.
We went into court with TWO PAGES worth of denied visitations with my skids. TWO PAGES - one missed visit per line.
All PB (psycho BM) got was a tongue lashing and $500 fine (which she never paid, my DH had to take out of money he owed for medical bills). She played by the rules of the CO for a couple of months and then went back to her old ways. Our lawyer bill was $750.
HA..... they can slap her
HA..... they can slap her hand all she wants. She will run her mouth as long as she feels like it. There isn't anything that can be done about it. That's like putting a cookie in front of a 3 year old and saying you can't have it you can only look at it and then walking out of the room expecting the 3 year old not to eat it. The kid will eat it. The woman will bad mouth. That type of writing is in ALL divorce papers. I don't know a single parent who abides by that. And if you want you can haul her into court but it costs you money to see them slap her hand and her walk out mouthing what ever she wants to you because she can........ Sucks
thats what i thought. my BF
thats what i thought. my BF seems to think this piece of paper will out an end all to all her non sense because shes scared. I know it will continue, but im going to give it one more try just to know i honestly tried. Then if she starts her crap up again, im outtie.