Had a good past couple of days. The boys BM (my girlfriend) has seemed to have taken steps in disciplining boys. She has been on top of them when they behave badly and has not relented. I have continued to keep quiet and only say anything when she ask for my help. However the biggest positive that happened is that she apologized for being so moody since we got back from our disatorious vacation. I also have continued to talk to others in my situation. One good bit of advice I was given is that sooner or later the boys BAD behavior is going to be noticied by people other then their immediate family and that is when BM is going to get embarrased and realize she must do something....needless to say this has started to happen. I am not happy this has started but I feel it's the only way she realize she must crack down on them.