Hello,

how do you feel about a single mom of a 7 y/o in her 40s, 5'11 and 160lbs living off CS, wanting to marry you (trap you?) to continue sitting on her butt all day not doing anything. If she would of work, she can make up to 70k. Keep in mind that she is lazy, dirty, does not like to clean or cook and is mentally unfit (very open with her kid talking about death, sex, periods, cancer harsh reality. She's also drama, constantly filling her daughters head with BS about biodad and his wife, alienating her from them etc basically her whole world is trying to make it difficult on the bio father and his family). Would you get tired of this crap? Please tell me.

Here's some background info. BM and DH were never married. They dated for about 5 months and she got pregnant behind his back thinking he would marry her. Wrong. He left and chose to be a single dad. She threatened to "take every penny he has" and try to get him fired from his job.

Im in my twenties, I used to model, Im 5'6, 115lbs from Europe. I moved in with DH and a year later he proposed(SD would always say to us "daddy, mommy says youll never get married" just because he never married her lol) we got pregnant and we got married, all that within 2 years after we met. Now we are expecting baby #2. BM was single when we met, she found some guy, managed to make him marry her a month after we got married(they were not even engaged) and made him rent 5 bdroom house in our neighborhood right above us when she owns a small 2 bdroom condo. BM has always bad mouthed me in emails and voicemails saying stuff like "I will never be a model/actress and to get over it" or to DH "how can you choose that slitty piece of sh*% over your daughter, that I am Euro trash etc and she has met me once in her life! She always talks about my age and my looks? She says Im too young to be a mom and a wife? When she doesnt take care of her daughter, SD is always dirty when she comes over, her hair always nappy etc.

She is also alienating SD from us, badmouthing us to her to a point where when we pick her up she would be crying not wanting to be with us. DH recently got his CS reduced thank God but it is stil very high ($750). So the hag is drama, doesnt work and on top of that getting free money that she doesnt even spend on SD(she buys her clothes from goodwill) I just want to tell her STFU and mind your own business and leave us alone!!! And I've always tried to get in her husbands shoes and ask myself WHAT WAS I THINKING of marrying this desparate single mother that her whole life is involved with trying to make it difficult on the bio dad and his family. What is her husband thinking??? If I was a man I would run for the hills. Too much to handle! And that guy claims to make 20K a month but theyre renting a house, and he doesnt own a car, he rents cars.

Thank you for taking your time to read this. Feel free to respond if you want.