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Submitted by newmom01 on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 8:37am

Asher10

Hey lady were you been! I guess things have not worked out for you.....so sorry...So your husband really chose his daughter over you? Well I guess thats a bad choice of words....Your dh did not care that his bd broke something that was important to you....I know that there were a lot of things that happened but that looks like it was the final straw.....so are youguys getting divorced or just seperated

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Submitted by Asher10 on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 9:16am

It was more that I chose living my life for me rather than living my life for him and his child.I realized it wasn't about SD messing up my work.it was about so many more injustices I had been suffering through the years at the hands of sd,mil,and bm.Dh only stood up against them a handful of times it simply wasn't enough to make the marriage work.I had to decide if I wanted to spend my life struggling to have peace and happiness with this marriage or if I wanted to end it and make my own peace and happiness.A woman only has herself to trust with her happiness.I decided to trust myself again and take a chance by starting divorce paperwork.
I'm glad I made the choice to trust myself with my own life because I look younger than I have in years,my work is better,and I sleep at night again after years of insomnia.I miss the man more than I've ever missed anything or anyone but I made the right choice.

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Submitted by alwaysanxious on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 4:13pm

I'm happy to hear it too. I am sure you miss him terribly. I wish that away for you very soon!!!