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Submitted by stepmomNM on Wed, 04/13/2011 - 9:57am

DH has once again ignored the fact that ss13 is in trouble at school again. SS13 ignored instructions and was rude to the teacher. Not surprised! He does it to me without a word from DH! Why would it stop there. I think the kid hates women! I have been desengaging so I was not involved in "the talk" after the incident. But ss came out of his room and got on the computer?? No consequences as usual! DH is an idiot!! He will never learn. So sad.......

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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 04/13/2011 - 10:11am

WOW!! sounds just like my ss11:

"I think the kid hates women!"

he talks back and doesn't listen or do what i say, mil says, bm says, bm's mom says, and any other female. and does NOT get into any trouble (neither does sd, but that's a whole 'nother blog i may post later).. ZIP ZERO ZILCH trouble...

but the little sissy ass is a suck up to dh and bm's dad... like their fucking shadow and DO BOY, "i'll do it", "let me", etc..

and the little fucker gets caught in lies and it's just overlooked/IGNORED

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Submitted by stepmomNM on Wed, 04/13/2011 - 10:28am

That scares me. If he does not learn now, How will he ever keep a job or be a productive adult? I want this little fu#@er outta my house as soon as he hits 18!

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Wed, 04/13/2011 - 10:32am

It is amazing how similar all of our stories are!! My DH never gives/gave SS any consequences for any bad actions. He normally got rewarded (in a round about way) for his bad behavior. And hate to tell you…it never changed in my world.

SS is now 18. Monday, DH asked SS how he was doing in school…SS told him great!! I looked online yesterday and he is failing 2 classed and making low 70’s in all the rest. He has also had 5 disciplinary actions in the month of March. Bwaahaaahaa.

I normally would not even tell DH this information, because I know DH will do nothing or make an excuse, or give SS money since he is an idiot, but figured, what the heck.

So I told DH and he said. Really?!! Like he was all concerned. DH never even brought it up to SS. Many years ago, it would piss me off because he did that kind of crap.

Not any more. It is not my kid. I don’t care how much of a liar and loser he is. That is DH’s kid to raise as bad, as he wants. LOL. Dis engagement is a GREAT thing!!!!!

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 04/13/2011 - 10:36am

Yep, just had this conversation with DH about SD13. He was telling me how apparently SD told off BM's newest boyfriend.. told him to "Get the fuck out of her house" DH thought it was funny because of course BM is the one who taught SD to talk this way, DH HATES BM, and SD does not talk like that to me or DH. HOWEVER! I told DH that I certainly hope that he addressed this with her and did NOT tell SD that he thought it was funny because it just starts there... before you know it she'll be talking to her teachers and us that way as well.. would DH think it was funny then?

DH said oh no, that he gave her the fatherly speach about how that was wrong and she shouldn't speak to adults like that... but I'm not so sure I beleive him....