I can only guess the only reason she stays is to get to do whatever she wants. Honestly i am burnt out. Many talk about how the SD back talks them, no mine does it covertly through text to her dad. I do not have any idea of her coming or going. The part of me that is a mother especially when dad is working out of town, worries. I still love her, i still remember when she was little and i still want her safe. However i am denied this, i am awful in a year. I am all to blame for everything that one gets called out on but not mom. She has told me in the past( when she wanted to move in) horrible stories of her mom. Who now she gets money from while we get zero child support. Or her grandma who she lied to with tears and got a 1700 computer more than mine to start my own business. I by the way was told by my husband to pay him back. I had to break it to gma that she was played because they get issued a computer at school. Honestly i am at a point where i want her to go back to her mums or leave with my husband and leave me and our other two kids at home alone. She isn't a sister, i get me, but not two boys that one is younger than her and the other 3 yrs older that she has known her whole life. I feel like i am dealing with a sociopath. Her only feelings are her. Husband has been put of town 2 days, she comes home, locks herself and puppy in room, then gets up at 6 am to leave with boyfriend. I am over it, i feel like this is so unreal. I am so lost as to hiw i became in a year the scapegoat. See my husband was talking a bit to loving to another woman, we fought, he had missed a recital to help her and her daughter. I was upset because i found out by accident that is why he never showed up. She wants to use this against me? All i sadly can think is someday when she is married and her husband ignores her then she finds the same, she may rwct as i did. I cannot tell her this though. I just wish she would go home. Not here. Her home is with her mom.