Maybe it’s the fact my BS is coming home for a visit this weekend or who knows why, I had the warm and fuzzies!   As I’m walking down the hall to give DH a kiss goodbye I was thinking to myself....”Next weekend is DHs birthday. Maybe I should plan for YSS to come over that night and we can all go out to dinner to celebrate”.  I mean it isn’t like OSs or MSS will even acknowledge DH so why not make it a good evening for DH.

Then YSS reminds me of why this will not be happening.  DH and I were discussing what snacks and food YSS and BS would like this weekend since they both eat a ton.   DH was trying to hard to get YSS to talk to him and YSS was mute.  YSS just stormed through the kitchen with a scowl and an attitude.  He was rude and moody!

THIS is exactly the reason I will not be spending extra time or money inviting YSS on our dinner out. 

Now im not totally evil, I will plan a birthday cake and presents next week while YSS is here for his regulR visit.  But no extras for dinner on DHs actual birthday. 

And I will make it a surprise so DH can’t invite YSS along.  

Thanks YSS for reminding me exactly why I disengage from your brothers and eventually you.