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After all these years- nothing changes

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 04/06/2023 - 8:09am

Need to vent....and I know you all would understand.  
DH found out accidentally a while back that MSS had got a girl pregnant.   Basically it was a one night stand that resulted in pregnancy.  They tried to make it into a relationship but that went up in flames.   Long story short..BM and her partner were so vile to this girl they have been banned from the hospital while she gives birth.   It's a shit show.

Long time No post

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Submitted by SM12 on Wed, 11/30/2022 - 3:11pm

Just thought I would hop on to share the straw that broke the SMS back and allowed me to completely check out from step hell and the last of the Skids. 
 

For reference I have been married 11 years.  Three SSs ranging from 25 to 16.  The only one that we see or hear from is the youngest.   I have had an ok relationship with him but we aren't buddys.  He will say love you when I have to take him places but other then that we don't really speak much. 
And I think we were both ok with that.   No one taking it personally. 

PTSD from stephell

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Submitted by SM12 on Fri, 02/25/2022 - 11:08am

I will try to be brief and forgive Mis-spellings as I am on my phone.

Been married 10 years to DH.  He has three DS's from prior marriage...ages 25 20 and 16.   After I came Into the picture and we got Married BM and her SO started PAS bad.  Older two were PASd out by the time they were 14.   Youngest still comes over but I'm starting to see signs of PAS.

Not sure how to approach this

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Submitted by SM12 on Mon, 10/19/2020 - 11:13am

A few week ago my BS was home for a visit.  His sister was getting married so he spent a lot of time going back and forth.   The final few days he was here, YSS was also here.   We are all hanging out watching TV when YSS walks through the living room wearing some of BSs sweats.  I was shocked but thought maybe BS had given them to him since BS didn't say anything.   
The next day BS was carrying on about not having any shorts and implying I have them away or they were taken by YSS.  I knew I had sent them to BS but he was venting so I just walked away and he got over it. 

Lord give me strength

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 08/27/2020 - 4:11pm

Just had the latest interaction with snotty YSS.   After enduring side eye and avoidance from him for two days I thought I was free from him for a few days.  Nope!  I'm working away minding my own business when I get a text from YSS saying he forgot something at the house.   Internally I am screaming but figure I can just unlock the door and won't have to actually see him in person.   I don't respond to the text, since it didn't require a response and go unlock the door.  I get back to work and hear the dogs barking.

“How much did ______ cost???

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Submitted by SM12 on Thu, 08/20/2020 - 8:02am

Seems like DH and I have been getting that question at least once or twice a visit for the past several months.   And the question is totally random and not a part of any conversation.    
 

Last week we were all outside getting ready to work in the yard shen yss, out of no where, asks dH how much his truck cost.   DH has caught in to this tactic a long time ago when MSS would try it.   DH likes to respond with a vague answer.  Sometimes YSS will drop it but this time YSS pushes for a more specific answer.   Again DH didn't tell him.  
 

School Clothes Shopping

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Submitted by SM12 on Mon, 08/03/2020 - 12:26pm

This year I was able to get out of going with DH and YSS to do clothes shopping for school.  I was so happy.  And then yesterday I find out we have to take YSS back to the store to exchange a few things because they didn't try anything in when shopping the first time.   And DH resized he bought YSS all bottoms and only one shirt.  Insert eye roll.

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