So I am new to blogging and step-parenting and I am 3 seconds from losing my mind! My poor stepson keeps getting a royal mental mind job from his BM and he is sooo confused. He lives with me and my husband fulltime and has for almost 2 years. His BM has her priorities off and doesn't play much part in his life but it affects him a lot. The more I do with my stepson the more he gets upset because he knows his mom doesn't do that. Then when he has a chance he is a jerk to me but still wants me to do stuff with him. What do I do?