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My SS is the devil and my DH is an idiot

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SS is the devil. He is more work than he is worth. Boy has lots of issues. I would love it if he didn't live with us but his BM doesn't even want him. Can't blame her. She did the smart thing and left. Wish I could. Now I have a month old baby girl with DH and I am ready to run with her. I am 85% sure I will be divorcing DH because of SS. I hate being around SS and I always feel angry and resentful towards him. DH isn't doing much to help. I can't hide my hate for the little boy. It's ruining our marriage.

How do you hide your hatred for a stepchild?

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Had my first child 19 days ago and I couldn't be more in love with her. Only problem is now I can't even tolerate my SS. He has done nothing but be a rude, mean, manipulative shit and I dont want anything to do with him. Sad part is neither does his BM so he lives with us full time. It's getting really hard not to show my dislike. I have no desire to be around him or have him here.

Amazing how bad a kid can make you feel.

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I feel totally alone in my own house. I always feel like it's me against my husband and stepson. It's not because my DH chooses though. SS is constantly trying to make me look bad to DH. Thank goodness DH knows better but I am really tired of it. Usually my DH and I split the care of the kid but lately all I hear is how shitty I am and I can't stand to be around SS. Then my DH has to take care of it because I don't want to. Kid wins and I feel like a pile of poop.

Wish I had a normal marriage

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Sooo my stepson has hit a new low. I have recently been accused of breaking his toys. Same toys he didn't take care of. I was told that his Christmas presents weren't good enough and he wanted better ones. Mind you he got everything he asked for. Oh and he told his dad and my dad that I choked him. Awesome stuff. I have never stuck my hands on his neck but damn did I want to after he accused me. I am 18 weeks pregnant and he came and told me I was big and fat. Keep in mind it wasn't in a joking teasing way. It was in a down right cruel tone.

My SS is ruining my pregnancy!

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So, my little devil of a SS is ruining everything about my pregnancy. It's my first child and I don't get to have any of those special moments with my husband. He ruined my wedding and now he's hooked his claws into this and making it a shitty experience. He lives with us fulltime. I wish he didn't. I cannot stand the little boy. Don't even want to be around him. I am honestly considering leaving my husband because of how much I dislike his kid.

Pregnant with a jealous stepson!

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Ahh! My SS is driving me crazy. He is 6 and has been acting like a baby since he found out we are adding to our family! He is being a little jerk to be honest. He has been asking for a baby brother or sister for months and now that he is getting one he is acting out. I can't imagine what he is going to do when the baby actually arrives! DH doesn't want me stressed out but the SS is doing everything to push my buttons. He won't even listen to DH.

Ahhh- gross little SS in the house!!

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I have been told by many parents that little boys can be gross. However, when I find my 6 yo SS wiping his snotty nose on things I flip out. I can handle a lot of things in life but boogers are not one of them! Actually what irks me the most is that he is a perfectly healthy little boy who was just too lazy to get off his duff and go blow his nose. The idea that a child is too lazy to walk 6 feet and take care of business just makes me mad.

Confused Stepmom

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So I am new to blogging and step-parenting and I am 3 seconds from losing my mind! My poor stepson keeps getting a royal mental mind job from his BM and he is sooo confused. He lives with me and my husband fulltime and has for almost 2 years. His BM has her priorities off and doesn't play much part in his life but it affects him a lot. The more I do with my stepson the more he gets upset because he knows his mom doesn't do that. Then when he has a chance he is a jerk to me but still wants me to do stuff with him. What do I do?