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FH is on my NERVES for the past week!

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I admit that I'm unemployed, but I'm taking care of my car payment, insurance, the household electric and gas and partial grocery bill for myself and him AND HIS two BRATS...plus I make all their breakfast, lunches and dinners....and do all their laundry and clean the house but apparently that's not enough for FH. I took down half the XMAS (and I say X-mas for a reason...I HATE the holidays and hated it even more this year) decorations....in the house today and I was happy with half because FH decorates like the griswald's.... But apparently he wasn't happy with that...or maybe he wasn't happy that I decided to go out with friends tonight after I fed him and his ungrateful brats....who knows. I'm just getting sick and tired of hearing that I'm not good enough even though it was our weekend this past weekend and he pawned HIS kids off on his parents for two nights and had one of MY brothers baby-sit the other night... He thinks I don't want the responsibility but I take care of HIS kids more than he does...FH couldn't even practice spelling words and reading at bedtime with his son like I asked him to tonight....I guess watching an episode of 'House' on DVR was more important. I'm thinking right now....what a poor excuse of a father....

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I admit that I'm unemployed, but I'm taking care of my car payment, insurance, the household electric and gas and partial grocery bill for myself and him AND HIS two BRATS...plus I make all their breakfast, lunches and dinners....and do all their laundry and clean the house but apparently that's not enough for FH.

----------------> Did he say that wasn't enough for him?

I took down half the XMAS (and I say X-mas for a reason...I HATE the holidays and hated it even more this year) decorations....in the house today and I was happy with half because FH decorates like the griswald's.... But apparently he wasn't happy with that

----------------> Did he say that he wasn't happy with it?

I'm just getting sick and tired of hearing that I'm not good enough

----------------> Is he specifically saying that you are not good enough?

He thinks I don't want the responsibility but I take care of HIS kids more than he does...FH couldn't even practice spelling words and reading at bedtime with his son like I asked him to tonight

----------------> Have you tried to disengage? Who took care of the kids before you came into the picture?

I'm thinking right now....what a poor excuse of a father....

----------------> You don't have kids of your own with him do you?
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