Bio Mom badmouthing Dad in Front of Daughter!
Yes this is happening yet again! And how my husband found out is from my SD15 boyfriends dad! He came over to our house and told my husband that he had witnessed this himself. And it all has to do with child support, which she receives every month, so she really has nothing to complain about! This doesn't surprise me at all as she has done this many times in the past! But she isn't supposed to, she is violating the joint custody agreement by doing this. I mean even my mother has heard her say she only got $25 dollars from him! at one my my SD softball games! She overheard her saying this to another parent! She lies so much, every word out of her mouth is some lie about me or my husband, she hates our whole family and we've tried being nice to her for our daughter's sake. I am just fed up and if she says any shit in front of me I'm calling her out on it! This is so not right! My husband is the exact opposite of a deadbeat dad and she is so lucky! She has NOTHING to complain about! What an ungrateful person! And my poor SD is caught in the middle once again.
But my husband has told his daughter that he pays child support every month, so she knows her mother is lying! This woman doesn't have a job, sits on her fat lazy ass while my husband works 2 jobs to support his child. So she is pretty much worthless to me. She hates me with a passion and everyone else in my life loves me and likes me. She has a very bad reputation in this small town we live in, she loves making trouble for people she doesn't like, she's made some enemies! We are nice normal people. My husbands family runs the local drive in movie theater, and the whole town loves them, we have a great reputation here! Anyway I am trying to rise above this , but it's hard! I'm sure I'm not the only person this has happened too! 
Tell him to make a copy of a
Tell him to make a copy of a cancelled check, both sides, showing her signature.
Mail it to the BM and on the back he's to write a note saying he has provided (neighbor who reported) a copy of it and several others who have commented to him about his child support payments. Plus he intends to do so in the future should be become necessary.
Hey - she lies he lies.
Knowing that everyone in town knows she's a liar may stop it.
Thank you for all your
Thank you for all your suggestions! This woman will never stop with her lies. But my husband has told his daughter I do pay child support every month, and he has paid for the extra things that kids need, like her softball camp. So luckily she is at an age where he can talk to her. I just hate that her mother is trying to manipulate her into believing her lies, that is so sad. Well I know a lot of this stems from jealously, her mother just can't stand the fact that he has moved on with me and is happy. She is all alone. Well I wonder why. Every relationship she's tried to have has failed because of her personality. The guy she last dated had a good job and money, he worked, she did not. She was just using him for his money. He broke up with her for these reasons, that relationship lasted like 6 months.
So I think this woman is an unhappy woman and just loves to spread her misery, misery loves company I guess. I have learned to ignore most of what she says. But this time I think she should not get away with her bullshit! She knows he pays child support every month, she just loves causing trouble, she is a person that thrives on drama! Hopefully someday we will be able to cut her out of our lives, at least for the most part. My SD will always be in our life, so we will have to deal with her mother once in a while. We will just have to keep being the mature ones!