Well after Friday's craziness with the BM getting SS16 withdrawn from school, I had to see BM at a football game I had to take my SD8 to b/c she was cheering in it. Thank goodness my mom went and my SS16 was there. My H couldn't go he wasn't off work yet. BM acted like nothing happened. I am sure she could tell SS16 didn't say a word to her and avoided her the entire time. BM even asked me where would you like to sit? Like I want to sit with her! I didn't I sat with SS16. Then Saturday I had to see her again at cheer pictures. Again she acted like nothing happened. Then later Saturday she started texting me one after another. Everything from my H is an evil man and i should be terrified of him to this is the hardest thing she has ever gone through lossing her kids. They were bashing my H and excessive. It had nothing to do with the kids welfare or health so I decided I would get her new H # and I forwarded all of them to him and sent a message saying I'm asking you get your wife under control or I will be calling the police for harassment (He is a police officer). My gosh, he was no better. Said he 100% supported her and my H was violent & he will be with me and I wanted a life with him so buckle my seat belt because the ride has just begun and its going to be a bumpy one. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? LOL. My H never laid a hand on that woman. Although she did my H and her sons. Needless to say, I haven't heard from BM since I sent that to her H.