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Submitted by lovestepmoms on Tue, 11/10/2009 - 10:09am

Things have been quite until lately. You can see past comments for more info but DH & I were awarded custody in August of SS16 and SD8. First off, (pat my back) SD8 made honor roll and perfect attendance for the 1st time ever!! She failed kindergarten and almost failed 1st grade. In 3 months with us she has gone from failing to honor roll. Good for her!! Wonder what BM thinks about that? I went to lunch the other day with SD and one of the parents started telling me how BM and the cafeteria coordinator do not like each other.

Two can play dirty, I don't want to but I will if I have to.

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Submitted by lovestepmoms on Mon, 09/28/2009 - 9:09am

Well after Friday's craziness with the BM getting SS16 withdrawn from school, I had to see BM at a football game I had to take my SD8 to b/c she was cheering in it. Thank goodness my mom went and my SS16 was there. My H couldn't go he wasn't off work yet. BM acted like nothing happened. I am sure she could tell SS16 didn't say a word to her and avoided her the entire time. BM even asked me where would you like to sit? Like I want to sit with her! I didn't I sat with SS16. Then Saturday I had to see her again at cheer pictures. Again she acted like nothing happened.

OMG how can a BM be that heartless (I know some are but damn)

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Submitted by lovestepmoms on Fri, 09/25/2009 - 5:07pm

Well the evil BM is at it again. She had my SS16 withdrawn from school. He lives with us and he goes to school in her area because he has been in that school system his entire life. So when we got custody the beginning of August we let him continue to go to school there since that was the most important thing to him. Well he got called to the office today and they said they were withdrawing him becasue they had reason to believe he didn't live there anymore.

Should we let SD call BM everytime BM asks?

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Submitted by lovestepmoms on Tue, 09/08/2009 - 9:14am

I don't know what to do. My SD's BM calls and texts my husband and I 3-5 times each night (total 6 to 10 times)wanting to talk to her daughter. We have just been awarded custody my 2 skids a month ago. There is another skid that is 20. But SS16 and SD8 live with us now and not BM. She has always done whatever she can to put us through hell. Now that we have custody BM has started calling and texting all the time. My husband & I decided that we didn't want to cater to the BM and grant her every wish or she would be expecting us to from here on out.

How to deal with the BM

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Submitted by lovestepmoms on Fri, 09/04/2009 - 9:08am

I am new to this but thought I could vent with people who understand what I am going through. I have been married for almost 3 years. My husband and I just got custody of my 2 stepkids. The BM will not leave us alone now. What lead up to the custody battle was when BM dropped off 16 yr old to a mental institution for a week then the day after he gets out she tells him to get out of her house or she is taking him back! He, of course, came to live with me and his dad. He is a good kid but has been neglected in the past and has been able to run wild at the BM house.