I will start with background, my brother has 3 kids 2 girls and a boy. He favors the hell out of the boy b/c he is a boy. Throws huge bday parties and such but nothing foe the girls.

Anyway brothers oldest DD is 17 and her mom is my brothers gf. Yes you read that right he is living with his first ex wife. I have to say that she is the most sane and good person he has ever been with.

Now on to why I love her. Brother was acting a fool today with over the top with his boy and ignoring his youngest girl even pushed her in a wall and hurt her to get to the boy. Hid gf went off on him. Go gf! She called him out about 3 times or so today. She told him he has more than one kid and needs to act like it!

When they first moved in together she looked at the crap boy has and then the girl and she told brother to give her money she is taking her shopping and that she is a girl and he needs to realize that! Go gf!

Since they got back together girl has been getting the attention and everything she needs. The oldest is the gf and bros but she lived with gf and she made sure that she got those things and treated right. Now I'm so happy that she is opening bros eyes to the other one.

I just had to get that out. I was so upset with him for years for this. Brother has full custody the bm is not in the pic she is in jail.

I did try so hard to get him to see it but I think gf will get through much better.