Ok I have a question do u think others can influence people the opposite of how they were raised?

I ask b/c my dd has been acting like an entitled lite brat! I bought her clothes and shoes for Xmas along with a visa gc and food. I did the same for my son.

Now here is where I got pissed. I sent son down and he will stay with her for 2 days getting his stuff together for school. Dd asked if I was sending food money? Huh? Ds has his gc plus cash from other family members just like she got plus she works.

I told her no as I didn't have any extra money and it's not like he is going down there with no money. She then said but you had money for your Mani and pedi. I was livid!!!!! First that was a gift and second it's none of her business! And its not like the kid had no money he has 100 all together just like she had for Xmas. I wanted to back hand that child!!!

So back to my question her room mates mom comes down every weekend and cleans their apartment a d takes her shopping and gives her money. Do you think this is where dd is getting g her attitude?