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Submitted by Reallytrying on Fri, 02/19/2021 - 1:32am

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Teenage Stepchildren

So last night, amidst an argument with his Dad, SK who I've always felt resents me, finally vocalised to his dad how he should put his kids before me, how I don't like him spending time with him, actually the opposite is true and I've said to his dad many time he should spend time with him - his dad did also say this. All very sad, but at least the truth is out. 

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Submitted by Wicked stepmo. on Fri, 02/19/2021 - 2:28am

I just live how SKs use SPs as a button to push with their OP when they are being rebellious teenagers trying to get their way and gaslight OP. 

I hope DH put him in his place. I wouldn't take it personally, because SS would act the same way even if you didn't exist and just blame something else. Because teenagers refuse to own responsibility for their own actions.

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Submitted by shamds on Fri, 02/19/2021 - 8:17am

Abandoned them for his new family. You know the pleasant wife and our 2 pleasant kids.

 

the reality is skids abandoned daddy long ago and sd's both went no contact for over 5 yrs and she and ss treat daddy as an atm. My husband has tried to have a relationship but when they make excuses and last minute changes so he can prove he'll dump us in a heartbeat and move heaven and earth to spend time with them and massage their egos, my husband resents it when our 2 kids genuinely love and want to be with him with no ulterior motives

my ss was almost 20 when he demanded my husband take him and his sisters on an all expenses luxury paid holiday during our 3rd wedding anniversary. I was expected to stay home and care for our 1 & 2 yr old. He shut that shitshow down because i told him i'd be flying back with our 2 kids back home and look at separation and divorce because i'd had enought of this skid bs and the disrespect of privacy & boundaries of us. 
 

 

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Submitted by Survivingstephell on Fri, 02/19/2021 - 8:30am

When he starts having sex, SS will understand.  Idiot boy.  
I wouldn't let it ruin my day.  It really doesn't matter what he thinks as long as he follows the rules of the house and treats the adults with respect. Hopefully DH is parenting him.  

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Submitted by Harry on Fri, 02/19/2021 - 9:01am

Time to take a step back and disengage.  No spending money on SK, no doing anything for SK.

I hope for your DH put them in there place.  Or you are going to have problems 

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Submitted by Rags on Sat, 02/20/2021 - 4:17pm

The Skid has designed the playing field for how he should be dealt with from here on out.  So, rub his nose in every square centimeter of the field and make sure he sniffs each and every reeking molecule of stench he has perpetrated against you, his dad, and your marriage.

A kid that has the balls to tell his father that he needs to prioritize his failed family progeny over his bride needs to be effectively neutered and provided with a life of abject misery if he so much as twitches out of compliance with the standards of behavior and performance that you and his father set for the kids in your home.

Bring the pain.... and have fun doing it.  He either complies with the behavioral requirements you set or he suffers.

And... have fun creatively delivering exactly the misery inducing consequences he chooses if he chooses to violate the rules.

Diablo