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Should I just let it go?

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Short Version:

Us
Them
My house
No kids perfect
Mine know my basic hot spots
SD 15 damn well should by now

My wants very minimal (ie turn off tv when leaving the room)
Lazy ass SD
Feel like always whining to her dad
Sick of it
Sick of it sick of it

Give up on the three things I want
) turn off lights and tvs
) put dis in dishwasher
) put clothes from ur bathroom floor in hamper (two ft away)

I just cant take it anymore

Dace

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If i yoked her up by her hair and stuck her face two inches from an on off switch then id be the bad guy huh? Lol. I dont clean her bathroom anymore,, i handed dish job to dad, and im getting ready to take away tv privledges (not forever, starting w a day, then a week etc). Im just so over her. I mean keyriste, i do it al.. Do something other then right before u want something. I hate it. I jate trying to act like i am not completely fed up w this selfish brat. Yea my boy isnt perfect but he does all my fetching. I hate it i hate that im now a nag. I hate nagging. Should i just give up on her?

dacejk60's picture

Its literallly mine. I was married and my deceased and I had it built. They moved in because we ware living an hour spart, school was starting, she was just entering highschool and...yea jumped the gun. I try to make it feel like hers but on this site im venting. Its a total 3xs upgrade from their last place and she wants for very little. I dont think its too much too ask the kid who asks for everything, to do a cpl things. She's really kinda weird in how she just came in w this sense of entitlement. Her dad pays a monthly amount but upoing that ante isnt gonna happen. My deceased made sure (w my help) that our two have college, cars, and weddings paid for like he somehow knew he wasnt gonna be here (car accident). Her parents chose no to overtime but... Different vent. Trust, i treat her real well and like the kid but this shit? Just now walked in my living room and there she sits, cable off but tv on,,, like wtf. Plz walk two ft. Its two feet away. She's a little ill today so i let it go. People im not a nag. Why does she want me to be? I just hate it. Im about done. Its too stupid and he's oblivious. I cant btch to him anymore
But before im totally done, im gonna go off. Maybe. Lol. Ive tried everything. Im not having the one dish my kid left in the sink justify the 25 she left. Idc about his one dish. Beaides he loves me. He does for me. She just thinks youth gives her a pass. Ah i really am tired of walking around w a knot in my stomach over this really petty stuff. I feel petty. Petty but im human and shes disrespectful. How do i let it go. Besides i do pay the bulk of stuff. . (As i thought im the one who will benefit from this house ect). I have to let go of them or this. Iill try this first. Ill fail tho. Lol