OMGoodness, he thinks she(sd12) does NO WRONG!!!!
This is me just having to VENT before my head explodes!!! We didn't even have skids this wkend and ended up in argument about his precious little 12yr old baby girl!!! She can do no WRONG in his eyes! I got the cell ph bill and its fifty bucks higher so when I starting looking into why is bc SD12 has somehow got online on her phone. I call the cellph carrier and they said she was online couldn't tell me what site she was on but she did try download stuff but we have that blocked. Well, I told them to block EVERYTHING except ph calls/txt msgs! I would cut it off if dear old suckered dad wouldnt raise hell. Your daugther has a ph my daughter should too(BULLCRAP-big difference in kids and reasons why my soon to be 15 has a ph) Well, my daugter has never cost me money either or her butt would be blisted and she wldnt have ph either! He sat his precious little baby girl down when he gave her the ph(I heard every word) and told her do not go online, don't download anything you have unlimited txting have it .... but you only need to talk to people within the same network...do you understand??? Yes daddy, I will never go online or try to download anything, I will just txt!!! Promise daddy!(puke,puke,puke!) Well, when I brought it to my husbands attention very nice,"just a little heads up ph bill was fifty bucks higher bc of SD12 went online"....you know what his response was????? Well, I doubt she did it I'm sure SS10 got ahold of her ph and did it???? WHAT???? You have got to be kidding??? Your not even going to call her out on it???? your just going to blame your son???? And knowing very damn well she doesn't not allow her brother or sister touch that ph! She slaps the crap out of them if the try!!!!! PLEASE....I'm seriously about to hit him upside the head with a 2x4, my gosh she has him so wrapped around her little finger, she could pop up pregnant tommorow and say she didn't know how and he would say she is the next virgin mary!! bc his little precious baby girl wldnt lie or disobey him!!! Please what kids doesn't disobey???? Mine do, shoot I'm not stupid, they are kids, but my also gets consquences!!
Anyway, from personnel
:jawdrop: :jawdrop: Anyway, from personnel experience block their ability to get on the net. We actually have purchase blocker on all our phones.
My dd downloaded something WITH MY PERMISSION and did this. I miss read something. My dh had accidental charges.
Do not go with the prepaid. I like my ability to review who my kids are calling. I also can block usage if they misbehave.
I'm with Foxie. Change plans
I'm with Foxie. Change plans and go to prepaid. Each account has their own.
But I"m sure guilty daddykins will still not believe his own poopsiekins princess was not involved in armed robbery after he views the police videos.
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I'm glad you took care of it.
I'm glad you took care of it. Next time she tries to download she'll figure it out
When she' asks Daaaaaaaady why her phone isn't working right, let him explain. When he's done, you explain it to her. I'm sure his explanation won't be sufficient/
Next time he says, no she wouldn't do that just say "ok. Hey H, I have a bridge in brooklyn I want to sell you." he'll get the hint.
Pre-pay. DH and I have very
Pre-pay. DH and I have very nice phones from Tracfone. His prev. phone had died and needed a new one. Not only did he get a very nice phone but his prev total remaining was doubled when he transferred the number over because the new phone has double minutes for life. So right now he has 1180 credits for 3 months. And they roll over! And texts are only .3 of a credit.
I would shut off ANYTHING not necessary. Also consider blocking texts during school time. There is no reason to text during classtime and it may restrict her a little more without seeming vindictive and picking on the poor little Cinderella. (gag)
Boy do I know how you
Boy do I know how you feel...there is nothing that SD11 could do or say that would open DH's eyes to her manipulation of him. If he doesn't do something to control her whims and irratical behavior...she is gonna end up pregnant and/or on drugs. No consequences for her actions and no rules and he thinks she is absolutely perfect and that she would never do anything wrong...she could cut my throat right in front of him and he would say...oh she didn't mean to, the knife must have slipped. He is in complete denial...it is crazy. Been there done that about the cell phone thing. No matter what happens it won't be her fault and she will continue to do anything she wants without consequences.
My BF is getting better about
My BF is getting better about this he had no structure for SD12 she totally ran the show!! How she wasn't a total terror PIA I don't know. She was actually a pretty good kid. But by giving her adult status she thinks she runs everything. He is slowly taking back control and she is doing way better. Or we would be right there with you. She knows the rules but when she breaks them she says "I forgot" or "you didn't tell me THAT" something dumb like that. He was buying it but now is calling her on it.