Besides the normal not speaking to me when he comes, even when I speak to him...yesterday he wouldn't even ask me for the salad dressing at dinner, as he only speaks to his dad. He complained about the meal I made, but that's every time...I decided to just barely speak to anyone all night and let DH referee the fights and what not. Anyway, DH hasn't been feeling well so we both went to bed early. I hear crying in the middle of the night and I assume its DS1. I go in the room and he is fast asleep so I look over at SS who is curled up in a ball on his bed. I say " Hey bud, are you alright?" He responds with a rude grunt. I say "Would you like me to tuck you back in?" He responds with another grunt. I said Dad's sleeping what can I help you with? He then did a long, rude grunt so I left. I go back to my bed and he starts crying again. I hated to do it but I had to wake up DH bc SS was going to wake up DS. He goes in and SS had to pee. That was it. He dislikes me so much he would have rather sitting in his bed peeing himself then uttering a word to me. I mean anyway, SS is 4 1/2 and the bathroom is literally right next to his room. I can't believe I had to wake DH up for that. My DD and DH have some issues but she always speaks to him, it may not be nice all the time but she still speaks. It's really annoying to be ignored all the time. I don't know what else to do bc SS is really good at shutting me out completely. Every question, if answered, is "I'm not telling you" or "nothing"