I am irritated as crap so I am putting it here instead of taking it out where I should.

Back story: my mom does a massive back to school trip for my kids every year. She includes ss in is trip. The only thing ss didn't get that my bios did were shoes. She felt that his other grandma who lives in town and makes more money than my mom does can at least do that. Keep in mind I have never asked my mom to dot his, she just does.

Dh and I won't ask for things, so dh decided tonight to take ss to get new shoes. We live walking distance to a very nice outlet so I figured they would go there. Anyway 3 hours later at 9 pm I call dh to see where they are and get bitched at for "checking up on them", big fat whatever, I let it go. I wake up at 5 so by this time i am ready for bed, but I wait up because I know ss will want to show me his shoes.

Anyway, they get home I see his stuff and he gets sent to bed. A little while later I go up and find him not changed and playing in his room. I say "hey bud, why aren't you in bed?" And dh comes up behind me bitching that I just can't ever leave him alone :jawdrop:

Excuse me , last time I checked I was the only one who gets up with kids and gets them ready while his ass is still in bed. We are all gone before he gets up. F him! He is dealing with a screaming kid at 530 because I am not. My kids were asleep by 8, thank you very much!