So middle SS34 after being unemployed, living with mommy, not paying rent, gets evicted, now living with his sister decides to text my husband after.....oh maybe 6 months of not hearing from him. Guess what? His car was repoed! He has this car that nobody knows how he has been making payments on. Has had it about 4 years, had to buy the most expensive car he could find, since his credit was shot and we refused to cosign the loan for it, he got his sister to cosign. So sis credit is screwed up and interest rate on car is like 22 percent.

Not the end of story, so now he is upside down on the car, has not made a payment in about 4 months. On fathers day we get a call from him saying how his sister has no money and needs to pay the electric which is two months behind. How he was paying it but they have no money. All a lie of course, sister is fine but 900 bucks is basically 2 car payments (see i am not so stupid after all!)

So hubby says "ya no" then about a week later the pitiful text messages and facebook messages begin. God forbid he actually picks up the phone and calls up his father. No too much effort. Mind you the only time we do actually get any kind of acknowledgment is when there is a financial crisis involving him and he needs money.

After hubby says "ya no" again. The text messages become more and more agressive and abusive. Basically how he sucked as a father, was never there for him, all his friends and other family get things from their parents (by things he mentions, homes, cars and money). This is so pathetic to me. Then when my hubby does not respond he sends him a message on facebook that is almost bordering on clinical mental case.

Total mental abuse! Then another saying that he knows "She (meaning me) is the reason he does not get anything). WTF? It floored me because i am not sure how much he thinks we are squirreling away in our yard out back or under the matress? We have been told that he thinks we are millionaires! It is so sick. We are middle class working stiffs, yet for some reason we have it so we should be an endless pit of money?

So on top of it, my husband lost his job about 3 weeks ago. He knows this, and you would think that would register that the only working person in the house is in fact "she (me)" and that the answer is still "ya no"

My poor husband, i feel bad for him because maybe he was not parent of the year, he is a person with feelings. No respect for him this 34 year old idiot has. The entitlement and self centeredness never ceases to amaze me. He has not worked in 3 years and every job (maybe 3) was gotten for him by somebody else, he has lived with mommy since moving back to her for the last 20 years. He dropped out of high school and did nothing with himself for the last 20 years but this is somehow my husbands fault? Unbelievable!

OK, off my soapbox, oh and to make matters worse! He unfriended my husband (his own dad!) on Facebook... wow... so grown up!

Fed-Up with the narcissm and entitlement