I am so very, very sorry for your loss old-blue-eyes.

Please, don't let these selfish, entitled, evil-minded bitches get to you. It is their choice, their burden to carry. The fact that they can never speak to him again, may hit home, one day - and they will have to deal with it.

In the meantime, know that there are people out there who care for you. Let them be the ones to occupy your thoughts, along with the memories you have of your husband.

Very sorry for your loss and equally sorry that your DH went ignored by his own child at such a crucial time. It must have been horrible for him and hard for you to watch. His suffering is over now and though you'll probably never forget her thoughtless and cruel actions, perhaps you can find some forgiveness.... not for her but.... for yourself, in memory of the life you shared with him. Best wishes to you.

I'm so sorry for your loss, and so sorry you and your husband had the stress of his daughter at an already difficult time. No one knows what happens when an earthly life ends, but I hope he has moved on to an afterlife where his spirit can gain understanding of the difficulties he faced during his time here so he can be at peace.

My dad passed away 2 months and 2 days ago. I have a brother who sounds a lot like his daughter, he and dad were not on speaking terms when dad passed. He did show up for the funeral, but refused to speak to anyone the whole time. It makes a sad occasion so much more difficult when there is that much tension.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm glad you had the presence of mind to change your will quickly, I do hope you had an attorney assist you with the wording to specifically exclude her? I know in some states if you just leave kids out of a will they can contest it and win. I've seen it happen here. But if you put something to the effect of "and to Mary snottypants, my husbands daughter, I leave nothing" so they can't later claim you "just forgot to mention them"

I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers sent your way. Hugs.

May karma bite his daughter in the ass someday too!

So sorry. It is obvious you have suffered much emotional pain over both the loss of your Husband and the heartless lack of response from his Daughter. Please consider that SD's actions are probably not limited to her Father, but to others in her life, and that people tend to eventually receive what they give.

{{{{Hugs}}}}
My deepest condolences to you and yours

My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight. I am very sorry for your loss.

How sad.. i am very sorry. You had such a difficult time.

I think your SD's conscience will get to her sooner or later. You may never find out
but this is pretty bad what she did. It will haunt her.

So sorry! How very painful. Hope you have other people in your life who can be there for you during this time. Big Hugs!

So sorry! How very painful. Hope you have other people in your life who can be there for you during this time. Big Hugs!

OBE, I am so sorry. When you feel low remember this: You gave your husband the greatest gifts one person can give another - love, loyalty and compassion.

When a loved one is dying, if you are able to be there for them it proves your devotion because it is so difficult and hard to watch. It takes great love and courage to be a caregiver. There is a special place in heaven for those who must witness and experience such heartbreak, and you have earned a place there.

I have a feeling that many years from now, when your DD is on her own deathbed and her life passes before her, she will have a flash of understanding about what she did to her father and how horrible it was. Perhaps that "flash" will last an eternity and be her own personal purgatory.

i am very sorry for your loss. he left this world with an uncaring child and you need to feel sorry for him for that. find peace.

I guess I need to take my head out of the sand, I never saw this post tell now.
I am very sorry for your loss. Hug's to you. Keep the toxic ones out of your life.

My condolences on the loss of your husband.

The daughters (SD and DD) will live the lives they have made for themselves and will suffer appropriately.

Take care of yourself.

I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain you are still feeling because of them. It makes me so sad to hear this kind of thing. I'm an adult stepchild myself and we were all there when Dad got sick, we were all there for the funeral, we still keep our stepmother in our lives and never uttered a protest about him leaving everything to my her because we know we wouldn't have had Dad in our lives as long as we did if it wasn't for her taking such excellent care of him. It's heartbreaking to hear that your skids don't appreciate your love for their father, but he appreciated you and your life together. He got them, he picked you. There's a difference.

I am so sorry! HUGS!