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Bdmnrizn's picture

Submitted by Bdmnrizn on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 8:51pm

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I totally hate my DH son, I can't stand the site of that person I wanna throw up when his name is spoken
He's a rotten no good for nothing free loader.No job, dad can I have some money sitting in jail can you please bail me out Im 32 years old and still need you to wipe my ass person. Is it possible for one person( myself ) to have so much hate? I dont think I have ever had so much hate before.
Thanks all I feel so much better!!

Orange County Ca's picture

Submitted by Orange County Ca on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 9:55pm

That is utterly stupid so enable him like that. I hope you've set your finances up so he's not spending mutually earned money on this.

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Submitted by clydella on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 2:16pm

Let go of that hate, it's not hurting anyone but you. I totally understand how you feel, I loathed my SD for so long I could have spit nails at just the mention of her name. But I finally found my peace when I let it all go. I won't give SD the space in my head or heart and I refuse to waste my hate on her, she's not worth it.

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Submitted by rainbow bright83 on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 2:21pm

^^^ great advice right there! I am trying to achieve this as well by disengaging. Sometimes I feel like I have peace, other times I feel like I'm slipping back into the rut. But overall cutting the Skids out has helped a lot.

I wish you luck!