What books do you recommend for stepparents?
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Hi all! I've seen Stepmonster recommended over and over on this site, so it's in my cart on Amazon! However, I have to spend $25 to get my free shipping! 
I already have The Courage to be a Stepmom, Stepcoupling, and The Enlightened Stepmother. Since I'm already purchasing Stepmonster, what should I add to my cart?
Thanks!
SC
If you are unaware of PAS, I
If you are unaware of PAS, I recommend Divorce Poison - STRONGLY.
If dealing with a mentally ill BM, 'Stop walking on eggshells'.
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“Learn by practice.” - Martha Graham
Oh, but if you want to read
Oh, but if you want to read that one, I can send it to you! I have it, but I don't really need it. I've read what I need out of it. PM me and I'll mail it to you.
BB
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The Dance of Intimacy and
The Dance of Intimacy and The Dance of Anger, both by Harriet Lerner. The Single Girls Guide to Marrying a Man, His Kids, and His Ex-wife: Becoming a Step-mother With Humor and Grace. Stepmotherhood: How to Survive Without Feeling Frustrated, Left Out, or Wicked by Cherie Burns and Supernanny: How to Get the Best From Your Children by Jo Frost. Also, The Woman's Comfort Book by Jennifer Louden is great for any woman in a stressful situation. All of these are great for anyone starting out in a marriage with step-kids and cover most of the problems step-moms face, with practical and useful solutions. I totally wouldn't bother with The Idiots Guide To Step-parenting as it is obviously geared towards actual idiots.
Hope these suggestions helped!
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