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Submitted by No-I am not you... on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 10:44pm

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Sad I should have never become sm. I feel like a broken record because I say constantly that I cannot do it anymore. SS 5 is a spoiled and disrespectful child. He throws bm in my face every time he gets in trouble. I hate it and I don't want to do this anymore. Its never going to change or get better. Dh and mil feel sorry for him being in a broken home...I came from a broken home and never disrespected my sm. If we got into trouble so be it. I just don't know what to do. I have two daughters with my husband and I love my family unconditionally. .. but anymore, I'm not sure if my feelings for SS and dh are fading due to me pretty much disliking my SS at this point. I don't want my girls to suffer from this. I cannot take it and feel like I need to take the girls and run..... :(((((

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Submitted by dodgegal05 on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 11:06pm

I agree that the "broken home"excuse is bs. I was actually watching a cop show and the girl who murdered the victim yelled, "go ahead, if you can prove it ill only get probation bc i come from a broken home." The only thing I can think of doing in your sitaution is start finding things you can do by yourself or with your girls to get away from the ss. Have you disengaged? It sounds like it would definently help with him throwing bm is your face.

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Submitted by No-I am not you... on Sat, 11/12/2011 - 7:26am

What do you mean by disengage? I agree... I think I need to just avoid him too. LOL that suxksssss because this should not be my life, but if it will avoid stress for me and no argument with dh then I'm in. I'm so tired of this. OMG.

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Submitted by No-I am not you... on Sat, 11/12/2011 - 11:46am

Wowwww!! Thanks for that link...it makes sense to me, but dh wont see it that way. He doesn't believe any of the articles or books I read about this stuff. We literally are talking about family counseling. I wonder if disengaging is something they recommend! If so, then at that point he might believe in it...